Hi! You can call me “Colby” or “Smalls.” I am 20 going on 21. I am Bisexual and Androromantic. I am a Demigirl (AFAB, PreOp/PreHRT Transmasc), and I use He/They (Sometimes okay with she when in a less safe environment).

I am looking for a D/s dynamic, not too miffed about IRL or online only based relations. Either are fine, though IRL is preffered though I know may not be an option.

Few things to note:

I am strictly a Sub. I enjoy things like subtle roleplay and direct scenes, among other things. I have a kink for military and other types of gear and outfits (and no, that doesn't mean people who are in the military, I just like the roleplay aspect, though I currently lack my own personal gear cause it's expensive - so I apologize in advance) - none of which is a requirement since I like a range of things from vanilla to kinky and am happy regardless :) I have a particular thing for hands, collars, and pet names. I have a stupid crazy oral fixation.

Since I was a victim of domestic r*pe I can be very sensitive to certain words and stimuli. And I am also autistic, so being vague on things like punishments can be very scary. I like having verbal check-ins and various options beyond just a safe word. Being able to literally tap out really helps.

I tend to subspace easily and often quickly if the environment is right and I can become nonverbal during subspace (though I become nonverbal at any time, though if prompted I will happily give you my attention and verbally cue back if needed with little to no issue).

Aftercare is non-negotiable - I like being able to cuddle and settle after scenes. Snacks and water are nice as well. I also like helping with clean up! Bonus points for kisses! Online based aftercare can look a bit different.

I am not used to being open about my subdrops (due to…those past issues) however I am trying to be more open and honest! Prompting and check-ins help as well! And, while not often, I sometimes experience severe drops that last up to 3 days max but can be remedied sooner. To avoid this I enjoy quality time and parallel play - cuddles and words of affirmation also help.

I am very much a subservient, pliant sub. I do my very best not to be bratty or difficult so if you enjoy a sweet little plaything, I’m your girl. While I am new to the scene, in a healthy manner, I am open and willing to try new things and discussions as long as you don’t mind me asking tons of questions.

I also want to make it very clear that while I am AFAB (assigned female at birth), I am a Demigirl (PreOp/Pre-HRT Transmasc) and I have an adverse reaction to being called “lady”, “woman”, etc. So I have listed preferred pet names below to avoid triggers.

Pet names (in order of preference): Puppy/pup Lad (Good/bad/etc)girl/boy Babe/baby Babygirl/boy Typical sappy stuff (such as love, doll, etc)

Personal favs: Kneeling Cockwarming Tongue Clicks* (I can provide a document on of my kink negotiation spreadsheet upon request)

I have no intrests in one night stands and if you have a fetish for trans individuals I politely ask you to move on.

Annnd - yeah! I am more than happy to discuss or answer any questions! And I apologize for any spelling errors!