The first thing I’ll do when we wake up is reach out for you.

There will be a momentary panic, if I don’t immediately meet your touch. Maybe I’ve wriggled out of your grip in my sleep. But I know that as soon as skin meets skin, I’ll be instantly grounded by your warmth.

This morning ritual, followed by becoming tangled up in your arms, will set us both up for the day. Perhaps on a lazier Sunday, we’ll fling ourselves from the covers, so I can assume a position of subservience on my knees.

My only hope is that in these moments where we’re not preoccupied by work, school, or family obligations, we’ll ensure our time is spent together. Symbiotically, I’ll show my devotion, and you’ll keep me centred in my place beneath you.

Dominance and submission will be our love language, if you will.

Here’s what I’m looking for: a kind, passionate, hard-working person who’s looking to settle down in a monogamous relationship. I can’t do casual, so there needs to be a solid foundation based on mutual attraction and trust. To make sure we have this before diving into a dynamic, I’d ask that we’d take a least a few months to get to know one another. Ideally, you’d also be between the ages of 25-35, but that definitely isn’t a hard cutoff.

Kink-wise, I’m looking for a caregiver who sets rules, makes daily decisions for me, and doles out punishments when I’ve stepped out of line. Basically, a “typical” DDLG dynamic without the age-play. Additionally, I’d really enjoy following traditional gender roles in the context of our relationship. Not because I believe everyone in society should follow them, but because I find they are what’s right for me. Absolutely not saying that we have to live like we’re in some 50s sitcom, as that’s completely unrealistic for modern-day life. However, I would feel most comfortable following your guidance, and feeling protected by your presence. In return, I hope I could make you feel most appreciated by my acts of service and devotion.

Another important caveat: I find I venture into a very soft and sensitive mindset when I’m in subspace, so I’ll need someone who’s patient and encouraging, while also maintaining that dominant, guiding undertone. Although I’m not a huge fan of labels, I think I’d be more suited for something who falls under the “soft-dom” umbrella. Also, praise is huge for me, so I’ll need that to be the main motivator. Not that a spanking and stern talking-to wouldn’t also do the trick, but I’d need those to be less frequent. Oh, and cuddling is an absolute must here, too. The more I can touch you physically the better!

About me: I’m a college student and intern who’s trying to do right by the world. I love reading classics, watching old rom-coms, baking, and playing cozy video games. (Think Stardew Valley and Animal Crossing.) I also try to volunteer in my spare time, because I believe in giving back to my community. I’m also all about late night conversations that span from our favourite conspiracy theories to our biggest aspirations for the future.

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If you take anything from this personal, it would be this: I’m looking for a true life partner here. Although it will take a while to get there, I’m looking for someone that I will ache for when I’m not in his presence. Someone who I can fall deep and fast into subspace for, while being certain he’ll always be there to catch me. But most importantly, someone I can also call my best friend.

I hope we can create something special together, intertwined.