Evenin', love!

Before we begin, I'm only seeking serious relationships that will eventually be in person. Friends are lovely, but I have no desire for a "session," "FWB," "online-only," or any other such thing. I am also not entertaining any branch under the poly umbrella at this time. Also, if you identify as a sissy we likely won't mesh. Also, if you are purely submissive, with no dominant bone in your body, we also may not be compatible.

If you're still reading, woo-hoo! I hate putting the "no" first, but I feel like it's becoming necessary. So, the fun stuff, yes?

Me: A 35 year old professional who has plans and goals. No pets, no partners, a fair amount of baggage. I have a handful of hobbies that make me happy but I don't do enough of. I love to travel though have discovered I hate doing it alone. I'd rather have the same movie on a hundred times than music, though I can appreciate it. I'm not artistic but I think effort matters. Overweight and working on it and my health as a whole. Wants kids and will have them eventually. This is a non-negotiable. Please save us both time, be on the same page. ETA: I'm a heavier woman. I don't like the term BBW but if the shoe fits. Attraction matters, and that's okay!

My Kink: I'm a switch who currently is identifying more as a Mommy or Princess. I enjoy control and being pampered. Imagine a sadist who will make you cry while cuddling you close and reassuring you that you're beautiful even when your eyes are puffy. Plus the typical expectations, rules, etc. My ideal (which is in no way a requirement,) is a dynamic that borders 24/7. I want a partner first and foremost, followed closely by a submissive who places me first, and is able to switch when I need that service Top vibe. Before you come at me, my person will also come first for me. My persons wellness will come before my wants. Some kinks in no specific order: TPE, CNC, ANR, ABDL, bondage, choking, blindfolds, MDlb or lg, pegging, PIV, anal, oral. When switching, my main goal is to not have to think for a little while, often via rough sex and more.

You: Male, female, I don't care. Over the age of 25. Under the age of 80. Body type is irrelevant as long as you're capable of working out with me. Open to relocation. Not married. Gonna say that again for those in the back - if you are in a relationship, do not message me. If your ex still thinks you are in a relationship, do not message me. 🙃 Jesus. You're also comfortable being the bug-wrangler of the couple.

Your Kink: You ache to feel at home, and safe. Your interests vary, and you're open to trying most stuff once or twice. You enjoy a little (or a lot,) of pain. You enjoy giving massages . You like being small spoon, but sometimes big too. You enjoy being claimed and loved.

Conclusion: Maybe you're interested, maybe not. Take a second and evaluate if you really are, then message me. Tell me about yourself. Tell me something you're passionate about. Are you a planner? What's a goal you have? Do you have the time and energy to committ to a relationship? What's something you can't live without?