First things first...I'm poly. Been in a relationship with my partner for 13 years. I know this can be a deal breaker. You sound awesome and I would genuinely love the chance to chat and see if we click!

I try to be as gentle and empathetic as possible. Everyone has their own struggles in life and they hold different weights to different people. As a partner/friend or whatever may come I am the type of person that when I care about you I will always have your back. When I invest in someone emotionally I will always do whatever I can for them.

I tend to lean more demi so the trust and feelings are definitely important. I can't imagine trying to have a bdsm relationship with someone you don't trust completely.

I am the type of guy who sends pictures of videos and cute animals throughout the day. I find it helps break up the day and animals bring so much joy. I take like a million pictures of my dog sleeping and doing random stuff cause he makes me so happy! He had a troubled life before we found him and it's been awesome to watch him grow and become curious about the world instead of being terrified and angry all the time. I love being a home body but taking my dog on little adventures is fun too! At home I love to play video games and watch anime and other stuff!

I am a bigger white 32M. I'm super into computers and stuff too!

I LOVE BANTER! My ideal relationship/friendship is messing with each other all the time. In a good and loving way tho not like mean or anything. I love to joke and mess around 😂

I am super chill and prefer to go with the flow. At the same time if there is something I am passionate about I am more than down to pursue it! So I can be a bit of a mix between passionate and chill.

So I think that's most of the vanilla stuff.

Non-vanilla wise....

I have found that my relationship is definitely missing D/s dynamic. I have always wanted a submissive partner. Being more controlling and aggressive sounds like a lot of fun. I am interested in only soft dom. I am down for just about anything. Someday I would love to have a free use partner.

If you made it this far and any of that sounds remotely interesting I would love to chat with you more and see where things go. No expectations or worries just chat. Maybe friends or something if we don't click romantically.