So... For the past five years I pursued someone I was interested in but after a great many failures to actually meet up on her part I'm looking for someone new. I'm tired of being alone and I don't desire to repeat the mistakes of the previous relationship so if you are willing to make time for me then I will make time for you. The following is what I'm looking for.

I like women who get off on being humiliated physically and mentally. I like introverts I do not want children so please either have children over the age of 18 or none at all Conservative politics have no place in my life I'm not looking for a "little" or someone who needs to be taken care of, if I take care of you it's because I love you and want you to be well, it doesn't mean that I am a "daddy" I'm only looking for a monogamous relationship, so be single or pass me by. I prefer gamers, nerds, goths, emo, or other alternative sub cultures Do not contact me if you are not over the age of 25, again I'm not trying to be your dad.

About vanilla me: My name is Casey, I'm of Irish descent. I work in surveillance at a casino on the night shift and I've always been a night owl so it works out well for me and it probably won't change soon. I'm a gamer, a writer of horror, and a love of the dark and the macabre. I'm 5'6 and an average body type with slightly broader shoulders. I'm the oldest of two boys and I own my own car. Cats are my favorite companion but I’ve kept just about every animal that is legal (and some that are illegal) to keep in California.

About BDSM me: I'm controlling, domineering, and will force you to do things that you'd probably never do alone. My main kinks are of course humiliation but I also like orgasm denial, bondage, and cnc. I prefer service submissives but if we are a good match I would consider a brat. My love language is physical touch and gift giving.

If I seem like a good match to you then send me a message with the word "essence" in it with a picture of yourself and I'll get back to you if I feel that we are a good fit.