Hey, thanks for checking me out, this is going to be a bit of a long post so let's get into it:

About Me:

I'm a 26 year old Caucasian Male, 5'10, chubby but working on losing weight and making progress. I have a Dadbod but I'm not obese. I'm hoping to get down to 200ish lbs as a final goal. Personality wise I don't want to come off as being grandiose about myself so I'll just say I'm generally fairly laid back and lean more to the calm side of things, with a bit of a cheeky and sardonic side(s). My interests are definitely on the nerdy side, I love learning about and working with animals (as well as other Biology subcategories as well, and if you wouldn't mind telling me your favourite animal so I know you read my whole post.). I spend a fair amount of my free time reading and playing video games, although I'm excited to start getting into Tabletops. I also watch a bit of anime and enjoy most media that has anything to do with history and mythology. One of my biggest passions however is cooking, I love finding new recipes to try from around the world.

What I'm Looking For:

I'm looking for a romantic relationship primarily, not friends with benefits or a platonic friendship explicitly, but I'm not opposed to it either, I just ask you make that crystal clear from the very start. I'm looking for someone within 5-6 years of myself, 20-32 years old but I'm flexible within a few years if we have a ton of chemistry. For a partner I'm looking for a someone on a similar wavelength. Nerdy, goofy, sarcastic or clever are all ideal personality traits. Other positive traits I look for are intelligence, confidence and kindness. I don't particularly have a preferred body type per se, personality is a lot more important but I will say that I'm a sucker for long, well-cared for hair.

At this point I feel it's appropriate to make two things clear in my ad:

1. I'm not looking to jump into sex right away, I want to get to know you as a person first, having that connection is very important to me. I'm not Demisexual (I think) but it's moreso that I'm slow to open up like that. I'd like to chat for a while, go on a date or two first y'know?

2. I've called myself Heteroflexible in the past, but I'm now Questioning my sexuality, considering that maybe I'm Bisexual or Gynesexual. I'm attracted to Femininity, and have found myself attracted to Fem-Presenting folks. This includes Cis Women and Trans Women with confidence, however I have also been questioning if I'm also attracted to Femboys and Feminine Men to the same degree. I'm putting this as a disclaimer, because I feel like anyone interested in my ad, regardless of how you present, has a right to know beforehand.

I'm not a super judgey person but I do have a handful of dealbreakers:

• Smoker/Drug User
• Dislikes Pets/Animals
• Self-Destructive (As in, doing things that destroy your body like neglecting prescription medication)
• Polyamory (not judging others lifestyles, I just prefer Monogamy)
• Highly Religious (If you feel the need to drag me to church, we're not compatible)

Kink:

I'm a Dom-Leaning Switch. I admittedly have not ever had a chance to try most of my kinks in real life. Much of what I know is from reading stories on Reddit, Fetlife and Loverslab (told you I was nerdy) and self-experimentation. I think I have a fairly strong grasp of etiquette and consent on paper, but lack the real life experience to confirm that.

Because Limits tend to be Dealbreakers for some people I'll list them first:

• Ageplay
• Raceplay
• Scat (Urine and Blood are soft limits)
• Extreme Masochism/Sadism (I'm happy to service top M/s play occasionally, but I won't do extreme stuff)
• Permanent/Long Lasting Markings
• Anything illegal or blatantly includes non-consenting people (I'm fine with stuff like exhibitionism if it's done with people who have consented to it however)
• Bratting, however I would be open to changing my mind about it. I just don't see it at my present moment as something I could enjoy.

My kinks have changed a lot lately as I'm exploring my dominant side, however I'm open-minded and willing to try most things at least once. My kinks:

• Orgasm Control/Denial/Edging
• Chastity Cages and Belts
• Costumes/BDSM Gear/Outfits
• Bondage, specifically with restraints like cuffs, armbinders and blindfolds (Rope and other bondage is great too though!)
• Free Use
• I also have a Worship kink which is hard to make clear in a way that fits on a single dot on a kink list. I'd be happy to elaborate more in private, but essentially it's a form of Deification.
• Service Submission, a specific kind that ties into the above dot
• TPE and lighter CNC
• I also have an interest in Dollification, but it's only something I've been looking at very recently

Conclusion:

If we hit it off I'd be happy to share a picture of myself as well as contact information, but I hope you understand if I don't share it on a forum in which just anyone can access right off the bat. I listed online as a potential, however I do wish to meet up at some point as I find long distance to be unfulfilling. Thanks for reading to the end, I know it was a lot but I didn't want to leave anything important out so here's a pun:

Why are vampires so happy?

They know how to B Positive