Hey everyone thanks for taking a moment to read my post. I am searching for a submissive female that is interested in forming a d/s relationship that is long term minded. Ideally I would like to find my forever sub, but I am comfortable taking my time and searching for the perfect fit. I look for a submissive that enjoys pleasing her dom, and understands her more traditional role in the relationship. I enjoy using positive reinforcement for my sub, but enjoy the contrast of rewards vs punishments (over the knee spankings are always really hot)

Here are some of the kinks I wish my sub to be into:

Lingerie. I really enjoy a sub that I can dress up in different outfits / lingerie. Change my subs style until I find one that I personally enjoy. Then when she wears what I enjoy, its like visual consent, and visual submission all wrapped into one. I know shes wearing it for me. I especially love stockings and tights, and would want a sub comfortable wearing them as I please. I am not a foot guy, I feel I should get that out of the way right out the gate, haha.

TPE, and ability to use my sub whenever I please. Definitely want to make sure its understood I would be respectful and have common sense about it. Like can't always just use my sub, if we are being realistic. But behind closed doors I would want the freedom and comfortability with my sub to take her whenever I wanted. Using her body as I please. I also enjoy being part of her decision making process, providing guidance and support to her and being involved in her daily decisions. From outfits, make up, to even what underwear to wear out (if any).

A sub that enjoys pleasing her dom with her mouth. Getting sucked on is a huge kink of mine, and is a 100% wanted. Theres nothing that makes me feel more dominant and powerful about myself than when I have a sub that is eager and enjoys sucking my cock. There's a lot of trust in the act, as well as an inherent "I'm using you right now for my pleasure" that I find very primal.

I enjoy using my hands and getting to know my subs body, both inside and out. Not every scene is built on intensity and hardcore-ness (is that a word? I made it one), I enjoy taking my time, going slow and really appreciating my time with my sub and her body. Getting to know every inch, better than even herself.

Would love to talk more about specifics if you are still interested. Please reply with a bit about yourself, description would help, pics are even better.