I'm not looking for an official relationship, just to be clear.

I don't know if there's a specific label I can put on what I'm looking for, and if there were, I probably wouldn't actually put that label on it.

Ultimately, I have to specify that I'm looking for someone who enjoys voice chats, phone sex, and having their orgasms controlled and denied. I want to know about you and how your day has gone, I want to talk to you about everything and nothing all at once, and I want to tell you how to touch yourself and listen to the frustration just ooze out of you when I say you're not allowed to cum.

There's potential for me to not let you finish for days at a time, but I like to start things off slow.

I'm not looking for any DDLG. I'm not interested in stereotypical "me dom you sub" dynamics. I absolutely will not call you filthy names, belittle you, or otherwise humiliate you. I prefer to cultivate a more relaxing atmosphere with someone that simply likes to give up control. I can be quite affectionate and also enjoy praising my partner.

What I'm looking for in a partner:

• 18 , preference given to 21 .
• Able to voice chat, and able to make noise when it comes to the sexual aspect of this
• Unbothered by non-immediate responses (I work, you probably work/study, it happens)
• Time-zone compatible (I'm in US central time)

The last one is negotiable, as I have a tendency to not sleep when I should.

I would like to warn you that by nature, I'm not the most talkative person. I get along well with people who are talkative, however. It helps if you're okay with periods where we just listen to each other's ambience.

If you've made it to the end, thank you for reading. If you're interested enough to respond, please don't be the one to send "hi hru" and get mad when I don't respond; it's a kick in the pants to write something so long and get minimal effort in response.

I look forward to hearing from you.