Hey there! Good Thursday morning to you.

Experienced Dom who started off as a sub many, many, and many years ago. Seriously, I'm getting old! I've recently moved back to the Chicago area and am looking for someone who wants to explore their submissive side in person and develop a relationship. I'm monogamous and seeking something long term. I'm tall, have salt and pepper hair and beard, and work in a great career that befits my benevolent nature. I'm well-read, cultured, appreciative of the arts, enjoy volunteering, love animals, and still have an insatiable curiosity about the world.

I consider myself a leader but not of the in your face Alpha negative stereotype. I'm calm, patient, confident, and considerate. I lead by example, with integrity, kindness, and respect. But do not be fooled. When rules and boundaries are broken there will be appropriate measures and consequences taken. All for your benefit of course.

I seem to end up in charge no matter where I go or what I do and that's just me. I prefer responsibility. I enjoy teaching and guiding new submissives so please don't hesitate to reach out if lack of experience is a concern. We were all new once. Experienced ladies also welcome. I'm very open-minded but ask that anyone who responds be single and not involved in any entanglements. Let me do the entangling. I want to get more into bondage anyway. :)

I'm not big on info dumping a kink list. I want to learn about you as a person first and see what makes you tick. Where do you need guidance, structure, and attention? Is it just in the bedroom where you crave and need control or does it extend to other aspects of your life? How do you see your submission fitting into your life and a relationship? What are your hobbies and passions? Goals and dreams? Coffee or tea? Let's build a personal connection first before taking it the D/s direction. We will get to your fantasies and ideas.