That dream came again last night. You and I met as strangers, yet in an instant, felt an indestructible yearning for each other. We could sense something becoming between us, an enticing and alluring magnetism. It’s only a dream, yet I constantly chase that feeling of soul-connection. I know my match is out there, so here I am beckoning into the void again, hoping to hear her voice call back…

I am married, Consensually Non-Monogamous and searching solo for a Melbourne-based partner. I’m NOT looking for a ONS or something fleeting. I prefer an on-going connection with a communicative, playful and sweet woman.

I am new to non-traditional relationship structures, but have done the extensive groundwork with my partner. Please ONLY message me if you are open and understanding of this lifestyle choice.

Although I am happily married to an amazing and loving vanilla partner, I have been kink-starved for all of my life. I’m looking for a singular companion and friend who also wants to get out of their comfort zone and try lustful and adventurous things with me.

What I Offer:

• I am a Soft Dom more into inflicting pleasure rather than pain. I like using bondage, shibari, toys and uniforms/gear as part of my sensual sessions. I am open to being a little rougher - but only after proper communication and trust is established.
• I'm drawn to D/s philosophies like Gorean lifestyles, rituals and protocols. Very much into Gothic/Alternative aesthetics although I present very unassumingly in irl.
• I'd try anything once, and have experience in discrete public play, pet play, ddlg, restraints, orgasm denial, spanking etc.
• I am slow, methodical, calculated and practice-based in my approach to sessions. I believe sustained mental and emotional stimulation is far more fruitful than physical satisfaction.
• Communication, aftercare, PRICK, RACK etc are non-negotiables. I even designed a fun customisable BDSM contract that we can work on together if you’re interested.
• Hard Limits: scat, blood, bruises, verbal abuse, extreme pain etc.
• I can offer a mature, calming and supportive shoulder for you to express yourself openly and authentically.
• I like getting to know someone on a deeper level, and being supportive of their needs and desires. I’m really just looking for a caring yet freaky person to explore my sensuality and intimacy with. We could talk (and train) online most days, and meet up occasionally irl to turn our fantasies into realities. I offer myself as a vessel for your emotions and desires in a healthy, non-judgemental and consensual way.

A little about me:

• I am an artist, designer, writer, chef and workshop builder professionally. My life revolves around creativity and visual expression. I also like Sci-Fi, fantasy, gaming, True Crime & nerdy sorta things.
• I love animals and think dogs are literally angels on Earth. I was a cat owner at one time.
• I'm quiet, reserved and more of a listener rather than talker. Major introvert vibes, but can also be extroverted when needed. (Never loud and obnoxious, not into the “bro” mentality)
• Physically I try to stay in shape. I am 6'1" with a slim-athletic build. I am usually active and fit, but haven't been to the gym in a few months due to studies. I’m a little rough around the edges but really want to get active again!
• I am Eurasian mixed heritage. On the outside I appear South-East Asian, but inside and vocally I am American/British. I grew up in overseas international schools and I’m a global nomad.
• Bachelor of Arts & Masters of Business Administration holder. Currently studying a second Post Grad in Melbourne CBD. Stable, mature and child-free.
• Very well groomed, hygienic, non-smoker, drug-free and I drink only occasionally. Can verify DDF if needed.
• Physical Touch and Quality Time are my key love languages. I love to snuggle as aftercare.
• Sapiosexual and heterosexual, though I am curious about mixed group play and possibly swinging.

What I am looking for:

• You are an unowned sub who yearns to be collared and claimed by a solely dedicated Dom. (I want to put all my time and effort into guiding you, and you guiding me).
• You are reasonably in shape and care about your nutrition and health. If you exercise or do outdoor activities that is a huge plus!
• Aged between 21-45, any ethnicity, any orientation. If you are partnered it must be ethical.
• Preferably drug-free, can accept smokers/vapers
• You are curious or experienced with ⛓️🖤🪢 and have a strong risk appetite, imagination and libido.
• Located in or around Melbourne and willing to meet-up irl after getting to know each other online.

I have been searching for my other, other half for about 2 years now. I have had some amazing conversations along the way, but haven't found the right fit yet. It's challenging given my open relationship status. I still remain optimistic that the sub from my dreams is out here somewhere. If I have piqued your interest, and you would like to have a chat, feel free to DM me. I promise I won’t bite!

Regards,

K 🌹