Hello there, sometimes it feels like I'm searching for the impossible so I thought I would try posting here to look. Basically, I am looking for a monogamous long-term relationship with a woman who is also kinky and childfree.
About me: 44M, educated work from home professional in a STEM field. I live in SW Michigan. I've never been married and do not have kids and do not want kids. I do have one cat. I am a very occasional social drinker, non-smoker and do not use drugs. I am non-religious and politically left leaning. Physically I am 5'8" with slim to average body type.
About kinky me: The labels are tough for me since none of the common labels really describe me all that well. But I would be something along the lines of dom-ish/dom leaning switch/gentle or pleasure dom/kinkster. I keep BDSM mainly in the bedroom with maybe occasional spill over into everyday life, so definitely not looking for 24/7. My kink interests are more broad than deep. And I view BDSM as more for mutual enjoyment with a partner rather than my lifestyle.
What I'm looking for: Single childfree women who are looking for a LTR. Ideally someone local to SW Michigan or within a reasonable driving distance. Age appropriate, which is subjective, so let's say 30-45 although I'm somewhat flexible on that. Someone who is submissive or sub leaning or maybe someone else who isn't so easily labeled when it comes to kink.
I prefer DMs over chat here on reddit, but happy to switch to a text/chat app once we exchange some messages.
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