Hi, I'm hoping to find someone compatible. You should be female sub(slave)/masochist into BDSM training sessions, but outside our playtime also a friend and somebody I can talk to about life and hobbies and pretty much anything. So definitely a long term monogamous relationship (we can spice things up with another female sub into our play later on if we both agree on that). In person meetup "some day" preferred.

Little bit about myself, I'm cis white male, turning 31 this year, ~ 180cm, ~ 100kg, postgrad student. English is my secondary language. My hobbies include daily walking my pup (you should be a dog person too), watching sports/movies/shows, gardening, cooking, audiobooks, pc gaming etc.

BDSM wise, I have a lot of experience with online play, some experience IRL. Some my favourite kinks I can think of right now:

Rules and routines (both sexual and non)

Online sessions

Praise/punishment

TPE

Being served

Spanking/slapping

Clamps and clothespins

Choking

Hair pulling

Sensory deprivation

Bondage/cuffing

Anal (love it all! toys, penetration, rimjob, atm)

Toys in general (a lot of them!)

CNC

Edging/denial/forced orgasms

Throat fucking/deepthroat training

Spit

Name calling

Degradation/humiliation

Petplay

Secret public play/tasks

Choosing your outfits (especially for our playtime, love slutty heels, skirts, thigh highs)

Also love to reward you by allowing to lick your pussy juices off your fingers after long edging

Curious about pee play and fisting

Can create a kinklist later on and am expecting the same from you

Requirements/preferred:

Must be in Europe or similar timezone or be available at times I am (we can clarify in chat)

Open to exploring new things with me

Ideally younger (20-30)

Shorter than myself (below 175cm)

Feminine look - longer hair, manicured nails, perfectly shaved holes (could have a cute ornament trim)

No fake eyelashes

Taking good care about yourself, no SSBBW or something like that

Willing to take sexual pics/vids/cam once we really click, no rush there as I understand we need to trust each other first

Don't hesitate to reach out even if you don't meet all the criteria, I'm very open and we can discuss why you think you're a good fit.