Heyo! I am a 30yo AFAB nonbinary (gender neutral pronouns, any nouns) bisexual heavily sub leaning switch looking for a LTR. If it starts online I would eventually like to meet IRL, but that would really depend on a lot of different factors how and when that'd shake out.

OUR DYNAMIC: Loyal. Honest. Emotionally intelligent. Communicative. Open-minded. Patient. Affectionate. Flirty. Dirty. Supportive. Validating. Respectful. Consent-centered.

APPEARANCE: White (I didn't get any of my Cherokee grandfather or Egyptian grandmother's melanin 😫) Hazel eyes 🍏🌊 Naturally brown, currently dyed cherry wine red, chest-length, wavy hair 🍒❤️ Piercings in either nostril Medusa piercing Guaged earlobes (I can't remember what size I'm up to but it's only like the 4th taper so they barely look like more than large earrings) Belly button piercing 5 tattoos (3 forearm, 1 inner ankle, and a tramp stamp) 🪶🪐🦘 G Cup breasts (working on getting insurance to cover a breast reduction to bring me down to a DD) 5'5.5" (the .5" makes me legally 5'6" according to the DMV) 📏 Curvy ⏳️ (got a lil bit of a tummy but I'm down 85lbs in my current health journey so her days have been numbered 😆)

NSFW: I have very mild experience, most of it online, but I've done lots of research and I want us to have a very emotionally intimate and upfront convo about what our roles do for us, and what we are looking for by engaging in a d/s dynamic, among other things, once that natural segue happens (but before we engage in any of the harder aspects of kink).

Kinks~ praise, breath play, CNC, impact play--spanking and face slapping especially, face fucking, somno, JOI, biting and being bitten, begging, mild degradation, being left marked up and bruised 🤤 hair pulling, scratching and being scratched, physical overstimulation

Hard Limits~ scat, water sports, age play, ABDL, anal to any other hole (the other way around is 👌🏽)

Interests~ [things I have no experience with but wanna try] anal, fisting, free use, gang bang (but only if my dominant leads), forced orgasm

Disinterests~ [things I could be talked into but have no interest in exploring on my own if not also have some hesitancies about] feet, pet play, orgasm denial

https://i.imgur.com/B0zpQMN.png Ask me for my BDSM(dot)com results when you slide into my DMs if you're interested in that.

You as my Dom(me) 》Obsessed with me. A little possessive. Kind to all, devoted to only me. Knows I'm independent, doesn't let me be around you. Will pick my outfits for me. Makes sure I'm taking care of myself.

Me as your Sub 》Obsessed with you. Very possessive. Comes with an oral fixation. Has a desperate and pathetic need to please. Sassy/a tease. Needy. A complete whore for you. Funny. Hyper-sexual.

SFW: I'm a Gemini ☀️ Capricorn🌙 Libra ✨️ and it's okay if you don't know what that means as long as you listen to me ramble an explanation about it because astrology is one of my chiller, but older hobbies.

I also enjoy: reading 📚 writing ✍️🏼 road trips 🛞 D&D 🛡 music 🎶 board/card games (especially strategy based ones) 🎲 witchcraft (particularly divination) 🔮 and new experiences that terrify me and I 100% have to have my hand held through or be reminded I wanted to do it 🫠

I'm AuDHD--diagnosed in '23--and have always struggled with my mental health which has led me to develop a very empathetic, justice-driven need to connect with my people. Meaning I am ride-or-die loyal but I'm also a big ol' softie. So I don't throw down when someone comes at me, but I will and have drawn blood for my people (been a while because therapy is a beautiful thing, but I could still be capable of it if I needed to be.) I have a lot of people pleasing tendencies, I'm very forgiving, and I am a glass half-full kinda person despite all of my trauma 🌼 I have been told that I have strong Eddie Murphy as a cartoon sidekick kinda energy in that I am a complete comedic doofus with a lot to say and a need to push buttons who will 100% cry at the first sign of a true gesture of affection.

If you made it this far, thanks! 🥰 I hope the ungodly amount of emojis made this long ass post more fun to read. So I know you read the entirety of this trainwreck, tell me what geographical location you would be if you could physically be any location anywhere ever when you DM me. Or if that's too much work, tell me your star sign instead 🌟 (bonus points to the ones who send me their entire natal chart!)