I'm 29, F (trans, post op, easily pass), a professional who lives and works in Manhattan, and a 420 enthusiast (:

More physical description: white, healthy weight/BMI, average height. I've been described as cute.

Vanilla stuff:

I’m super nerdy. I work in software, play video games, enjoy anime, love long walks, enjoy museums, and love word play / puns. I enjoy most cuisines, from sushi to Ethiopian to burgers. I don’t drink often or in excess, though I do enjoy edibles frequently.

Most recently I've been playing Minecraft, Pummel Party, Manor Lords, and Valheim. As far as anime goes, I'm mostly following the current season of That Time I Got Reincarnated as a Slime.

Kinky stuff:

kinklist: https://i.imgur.com/YI1cWoa.png

In general, I want to do the things I know I'm into, and want to try out the things I'm not certain on. To expand on that...

What I know I'm into: I'm a submissive who loves restraints and bondage in general -- think cuffs, rope, chains, collars, gags, blindfolds, etc. I really enjoy giving up control and feeling like I'm at someone's mercy. I can naturally be a bit bratty sometimes for fun, to me it's a little more fun if it's a challenge, but I can also keep/tone that down.

Things I think I'm into, or want to try: I'm dying to try out blackout contacts and other sensory deprivation stuff. It's fascinating to me. Latex has also recently really piqued my interest. I've also had some self-exposure to chastity, but haven't had the pleasure of someone being in charge of it, so that's also something I want to at least try. Maybe make me regret letting you know that 😉

My hard limits: See the kinklist, but in general just nothing that would cause a long-lasting mark/damage, or otherwise be objectively unhealthy/dangerous. I also don't mix finance with relationships, kinky ones included.

I'm looking for:

I'm looking for a dominant of similar age (24-35), preferably a woman (cis, trans, doesn't matter) or otherwise femme person, in the NYC area.

Ideally this would be a long-term/romantic relationship as well, and I have a preference for monogamy at least initially (to be honest, I've just never tried poly, so it's a little intimidating), but neither of those are necessarily hard limits. Outside of kink though I'd love to maybe go stroll the city, maybe grab coffee and burn some time at the Met. Or just stay home and play games or watch TV. I'm pretty much down for whatever.

If that's you:

Message me! Tell me about yourself, and what you're into! ❤️ I can be shy sometimes, so ask me questions!