About Me

Hi, Im a 22 year old cis man from NJ. Im 5’7", white, slim (130 lbs), and have longer brown hair and blue eyes. I’ll include a picture at the end. Im currently in school for computer science going into my fourth year. In my free time, I like to hang out with friends, game (mostly single-player), watch youtube or shows (currently parks and rec and wwdits), learn guitar, and do yoga, but in life i usually just go with the flow and let adventure find me. Environmentalism, human rights, feminism, and adjacent causes are important to me and I lean left in politics. Im plant-based (vegetarian, but try not to eat dairy and stuff) and have a passion for animal welfare and nature, so if you have a plant based diet you certainly have my attention haha. My primary love languages are quality time and physical touch, but I value them all.

My Ideal Relationship

Im looking for a monogamous relationship with someone between 20 and 30 (a bit older or younger maybe too) based in the NJ or NY area whom I can find love with and eventually worship, and become best friends with. States around NJ are possibly okay too. Starting off online is fine, but I'd like things to eventually move to irl. I prefer a cis woman or NB who was assigned female at birth, preferably average, curvy, athletic, or muscular body size (no shame to anyone else! ). Im hoping for someone who is caring, kind, assertive, and hopefully outgoing (its okay if you're not, I'm just a little shy), and who shares some of my values/politics. I prefer gentle dommes or mommy dommes, but I’m open to anyone. Im hoping for the dynamic to be a normal thing, like in public (PDA is hot, just sayin’) or around the house, not just in the bedroom, and with proper discipline. When it comes to experience, anything works for me; if you’re experienced, I am happy and willing to learn from you, and if not, we can learn and grow together :)

My Femdom Preferences

Full kinklist (open to change, even limits): link

My favorite kinks/fantasies: Praise, body worship, facesitting, nursing, spit/tongue play, MD/lb, CNC, primal play, and collaring are some off the top of my head, but I'm really into a lot of stuff. As for nonsexual stuff, being guided, having decisions made for me, being the little spoon, being pampered/bathed, and my partner showing dominance over me in public are a few things, to give you an idea.

My hard limits: Anything that involves scat, more partners/subjects, extreme CBT, or extreme violence/pain. Some other stuff too (on kinklist).

D/s dynamic: I think I'd like to try many dynamics, but from mindbodygreen, my favorite of what id like to try is: FLR, D/s lovers, Cg/l, bondage, and training. Anything else I am open to as well but again those would be my favorite.

Previous d/s experience(s): I am inexperienced in D/s relationships but I’m capable and willing to learn from someone more experienced or learn with someone less experienced. In the meantime, I’ve been doing research myself to make sure I’m ready and able to serve.

Available toys and equipment: I have no toys of my own currently, all natural baby. I'd love to use toys in the future though.

For You

In general, my main goal is to please my partner and earn their affection. I myself am a very loving, affectionate, and obedient (with a little spice ;) ) person. I love giving and receiving physical affection, and the thought of making my partner happy and feel special brings me joy. For what I can offer day-to-day, I can cook, clean, take care of them, and really whatever they request and command of me. I'm pretty much an open book when it comes to most kinky stuff too, especially with being inexperienced. I hope we can make each other happy and have a fulfilling, long-lasting, and meaningful relationship with fun dates, lots of love, physical/emotional affection, respect, and intimacy. If they’re into something I'm not, or vice versa, I'd be more than happy to work it out so that we are both satisfied, most importantly my partner of course. I'm also open to switching and stuff if the scene calls for it, but I'm happiest with being the sub.

If any of this has interested you and you'd like to chat, please dm me(sfw) a bit about yourself, your looks (or picture), and what you want in a relationship and from me as a partner. I’d love to get to know you and I will try to respond asap, probably within a few hours. I’d prefer verification after some chatting so that we know we click first. I look forward to meeting you! :)