Dominant for submissive/slave cis born women only please, work from home/stay at home submissives preferred.

Hi to to start I'm looking for someone whom their first words to you aren't I won't do that or no. I'm not saying no limits, I'm not crazy, but maybe keep an open mind or be open to trying things that are outside your normal comfort zone. Expand your horizons you know?

Luckily I have met people who were open minded, who were adventurous. Just because your kinky, or enjoy sex doesn't mean we open with that how about we talk, and get to know each other spend some time learning about one another. Because I want a friend, a companion, and a partner.

Lately meeting people has been hard, sometimes it's been hit or miss, it's all been miss as of late. I'm sure that has to do with me but you have to keep trying, you stay persistent, you keep working at it because when you find someone amazing and everything clicks it is fucking magical, and I want that again, we all deserve that.

So I'm not quitting until I get that, so that having been said allow me to get into who I am, and what I want to explore.

I'm 45 I've been exploring the lifestyle online and in person for over 20 years. I was taught by my first gf when I was 18. I had no clue what I was doing but she showed me, and I learned. After that ended I decided to continue to explore it.

What I've learned is that this dynamic can be a beautiful, and emotionally fulfilling experience. You can have meaningful and intense sexual dynamics, and mutually encouraging and supportive experiences, they are not mutually exclusive. But they do take work, from both sides, you can't half ass a dynamic, both parties need to put in the work.

So that is a little about me, what I believe, and how I approach things. I tend to be pleasure focused, I like making my sub/slave feel good. I also enjoy some pain, but nothing excessive. I'm also task focused, I enjoy giving tasks and my sub following through.

These are my kinks, you don't have to like them all but I hope you are open minded enough to try some, that is my hope at least.

Orgasm control Private/public play Toys Orgasm denial Wardrobe control Begging Body writing Pictures Videos Free Use Breast/Pussy Torture Role play Breast Ties Electro Play and more taboo, and darker kinks as well.

And more. I know I'm fairly kinky, but I believe I am just being more honest and upfront about kinks. A lot of people try underhanded shit and try to manipulate you into certain types of play, I'm just being honest and upfront as your consent means everything.

So in closing, if you are looking for someone intelligent, nerdy, funny, and sexy, message me I'd love to speak with you and to get to know you better. Regardless of whether I hear from you or not I hope you find what you are looking for, we all deserve our happiness.