Hiwoo ;)
It's my second reposting, but I made some changes I hope you like.
I am a "dude" who likes to age regress, but it's not something I do often. I want it to become often lol.
Honestly, I'm not a lifestyle "sippy-cup" little, I just want someone who isn't going to be bothered by me going into little space whimpering and talking like a toddler when I get comforted or hurted really hard. Other than that, for age regression, all I think I would want is mostly just babytalk mixed with verbal reminders about how you feel about me. I might want to do ageplay for sexual reasons, but it's not the same as the age regression stuff I mentioned above. I actually fantasize about a lot of different roleplays. Hence, I'm looking for someone I can sometimes call "Mommy" who is also my main or only romantic partner, and it's mostly just for age regression purposes.
🛑 Ok you heard me out. If you're not willing to eventually be a mommy like above or negotiate something, then I appreciate you hearing me out. It's a deal breaker for me though, so you can go now if it's not your cup of tea lol.
Ok... hi again. Let's talk relationship structures and dynamics. So I tried traditional closed monogamy, and I was very unhappy lol. It was difficult not interacting with other people, especially sexually (at least in my one and only relationship). I don't know what I want unfortunately, but it seems like I would be happiest in a non-traditional relationship as in dating or being sexual with other people in some capacity. I guess... I'm hoping you're willing to work with me on that or you're fluid or you know what you want? I don't know. I don't think I would be happy with a typical flr, but I wouldn't expect/mind you picking what I eat (as long as I like the food) or maybe even what I wear and incorporating a couple select aspects of that if that's what you want. Being a househuband or boywife is not my thing. I love to work, and I want to retire early. Role reversal... I don't think I completely understand what it is, but I think I would love it. Gentle femdom could be fun, so maybe, but we would have to talk about it. I hope that narrows it down at least somewhat for what I am looking for.
I didn't put anything d/s in yet because I don't think I am anything within that. I used to say switch, but honestly giving up control or taking control is very draining for me lol. If I had to pick which one I am more, then ig I would say dominant (in the bedroom) just because I ask for a lot of things; but honestly, it's not something I care much about. I seem to have a lot of similar interests to people into femdom though, so hello lol. And even if we both end up being dominant, then I think we could still make it work.
What I dooooo care about is watching youtube, exploring my sexuality, video games, money and business, smarty pants stuff, "singing" to stuff I like such as dark trap (think edgy hiphop), writing down stuff that I think about, eating healthy in general, healthy exercise, learning Dutch, fixating on random stuff (fnaf, speedruns, super mario 64, binding of isaac, and more unfortunately lol), asmr, and a little bit of watching horror or very messed up movies (but I've been holding off watching stuff for a long time like it's a virginity, and I want to share those experiences with someone I love deeply 🥹).
So take this with a grain of salt, but I would describe myself as silly (duh), pervy (duh), clingy, sensitive, cute, spooky, introverted, creative, ambitious, supportive, calm, quiet, lovely, intiligint (🧠), beautiful, and extra.
My features include: 5'9", a little less than 190lbs (overweight, trying to lose weight until I have a normal bmi), broad shoulders and chest, long brown hair that's balding, dark blue eyes, wide nose, short but wide feet, a soft pale face, white skin, glasses, beauty mark on my cheek that I like, big butt, three inches and uncircumcised, big calves, a little facial hair, and a kinda hairy body for now. I am lax on the hygiene for now unless I'm going out because I don't like how my body feels when it's clean or going under water.
Ok so sexual stuff, it's a lot that I'm into. Like it's a big problem for me putting labels on things because my kink interests and sexual interests will change very frequently. Plus, my libido is really high, so I don't expect my partner to meet all of my sexual and kinky needs. I guess the most "frequent" ones would be ageplay and age regression (duh), hard-to-explain sensual stuff (but ig you can think of it like body part worship, milking, massaging, grinding, dry humping but it's complicated, groping, prostate play, nursing, licking, making out, hugging, cuddling, holding hands, staring 👁👁, cock/clitwarming, and using different objects on each other to enjoy the textures), both sides of S&M but it's complicated (I don't mind if it's not your thing because I could probably get it elsewhere.), and being pamperrrrrrrrrrrrrred excessively. I am usually not that much into putting my penis into a vagina, butthole, or mouth, but I honestly don't know for certain because I am a virgin. Dirty talk, very good aftercare, and... reassurance... is important to me as well, and I can teach you if you struggle with that.
I am weak with social situations and weak at setting the pace for the relationship, so I hope you are stronger in those areas but the latter especially. I would prefer that I could look up to you for that and for advice and emotional support in general.
I don't have any meaningful deal-breakers to put here honestly besides the mommy thing. A lot of it is preferences. Just be 18 lol. That's the only deal-breaker. I'm already picky as it is lol.
I prefer talking over chats, so you can send your "hi" message there (I'm kidding, please don't just say "hi" 😭). Gwaaahh idk what else to say so byeeeeeee (or hopefully hiiiii (and asl and a bit about youuuuu) in my dmmmmmmms k bye fr) :]
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