24 [M4F] # London Looking for the one … to ruin my life
Hi my name is James.
I’m a 24 year old submissive based in London. I’m looking for something longterm and ideally local to me. I’m open to people in Europe as well since I have a European passport, but any further would make it difficult longterm.
Some of my interests are: sports (mainly rugby & football, tennis, but also keep up with a lot of other random ones) history, travel, psychology, philosophy, film/tv, economics&politics (uni/work related).
I recently graduated university and now work in finance. Ironically I have to act outwardly confident and dominant in my job. I also used to be fairly sporty and I am in pretty decent shape, so I imagine most of the people who know me probably would not think that I’m submissive in my private life.
I guess I’m a little nerdy and can be a little shy. I suppose opposites attract as I have always been attracted to confidence and found myself drawn to people on tv who had dominant traits from an early age. I’ve been kinky as long as I can remember.
I’ve only ever really dated domiant people and while i don’t mind a strict approach, I enjoy the gentler side of things a lot and would want to date someone normally too. I am essentially looking for a domiant girlfriend. I would ideally want to fall in love with someone to the point I would do anything for them not only because they controlled me but because I adored them.
Writing about myself is really awkward so I’ll keep it short. If there’s anything else you would like to know feel free to ask.
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