Hi there, thanks for reading in advance! My name is Rhys, 29, and on the West Coast (PST). I'm 5'7" and 155 lbs, an

I'm kind of in an interesting predicament. I've been used and abused quite happily by my current domme for 4 years now, but our current phase is coming to a close as she is moving into a new phase of her life and we are going to have to finish our D/s chapter. At her encouragement, I want to find a new home for this toy. I have a ton of experience with online situations, but I would at least hope to transition to in-person at some point.

To give a better idea of what I'm looking for, I see the D/s relationship not just as a sexual release but one of absolute trust. A confidence and a belief in another equal human being that accepting an unequal situation will not be mistreated in eother direction. There's a social and emotional connection that I believe in and want to have with someone that makes my heart flutter. To just be tethered by just the physical actions leaves so much bonding and enjoyment on the table, and I would want to experience that all with you. It isn't that I don't enjoy the physical parts, I just find them easier to engage in on a whim than what I would want long term. I'm not just looking for a Domme. I'm looking for a friend, a partner, and a confidant.

In my regular life,

I am a professional WfH'er. It's a happy and comfortable life, and leaves me with plenty of energy for my hobbies, those being tabletop games, roller skating, and writing. While I wouldn't call it a hobby, I'm deeply invested in being an activist for progressive/leftist politics in the U.S. and I would ask that you are at least willing to engage with politics, not be leftist specifically. On top of this I have 2 cats that would be a package deal with me, as I love them more than anything.

Body wise, I've become a proper twunk, and I'm proud of my body. I do enjoy working out to an extent, and I would love to do so with you. I'm about moderate height, and generally unassuming in my dress. I tend to keep myself shaven from the nose down, as I love the feeling of soft cloth on smooth skin.

While I love taller women, I know that is something that can't be super controlled, so if you are at least somewhat in shape, I could not care less about height and other factors. Outside of physical attraction, where I'm most happy is deep, enriching conversations about just about anything that you or I are passionate about or nestled in some blankets underneath my two fur babies.

In private,

I've been a service oriented partner for as long as I can remember. Being on top is still fun, but I've always been deeply focused on and proud of my ability to please my partner. I love being used as my partner wants, while being completely in their thrall. I also love the flip side of being able to provide the sensations and pleasures of my partner with every part of me, which has led me to working my hands and mouth to perfection. I've been labeled by multiple partners as "The best dildo they never bought", and I would love to be able to prove that to you.

The long time I've been a sub has given me a ton of time to explore, and I'm still open to a lot. Just to cover the highlights:

Green Light (Stuff I know I like/am good at):

• Hand and Mouth service
• Tasteful and not-so-tasteful self-photography
• Servicing in Mundane fashion
• Role-playing
• Degredation
• Size queen, both giving and receiving.
• Pain/impact play
• Marking
• Primal/prey dynamic
• play fighting/wrestling
• JOI
• CNC
• Phone sex
• Exhibitionism
• Femenization/Dress up
• Strip teasing/Dancing
• Mundane tasks/small controls

Yellow Light (Stuff I haven't tried but would be willing to try.)

• Hypno
• Sounding
• Training
• Chastity
• Anything I really miss, I'm happy to experiment.

Red Light (No-go)

• AB/DL
• blood/scat
• CBT
• Findomming
• Public humiliation

If you've made it this far, thank you again and if any of this interests you, I'm happy to share pictures of myself and my tasteful photography over the past while. I'd love to hear more about what you are passionate for, and what you'd be interested in going forward.