Hi there! I'm a 31 year old IT Director with a vast amount of interests and hobbies! Naturally, I'm a geek that works as hard as I play (the mantra is "work hard, play harder" right?). I own my own place, have two fabulously adorable cats, and I’m generally looking for a sub/partner. I'm tall (6'2), broad shouldered, and a wicked sense of humor to match. My music tastes typically fall from classic rock to nu metal to modern, and I've got friends in the industry I see pretty regularly (free shows anyone?). What I'm NOT into is sports, awful/boring conversations, and indian food. Now onto the other side; I'm a soft dom that's a bit over the normal dating game. If my sub prefers to be controlled/constantly guided, I can do so, but I prefer my subs to simply enjoy spending time with me. About you: My physical ideal sub is alt/pale skinned (tattoos, piercings, exotic hair, etc) but I'm open to anyone. Thicker/Bigger is most definitely welcome! Geeky interests, a love for rock/metal, and a general quiet life is your preference. You should be interested in the idea of being "provided" for in exchange for your unwavering loyalty. I make more then enough to sustain two people comfortably, and ideally you like the idea of taking care of our home and myself in the evenings. You like the idea that you're going to be able to relax and enjoy your day doing your own hobbies and interests, but making sure dinner is taken care of when I get home from a long day. You relish the idea that when it's our time for bed, you're ready to slip in with me and restart the next day anew. You love the idea of a nice night out at executive style dinners with a beautiful dress I've bought you, but having messy hair, PJ's, and a movie night in is just as comforting. Kinks can be discussed in private if the rest interests you, but I'm far from vanilla. Lets see if I can find better luck on here then in actual dating!