As a 35-year old, gender-nonconforming, demisexual, plus-sized woman who is based in Berlin, Germany, I'm looking for
- a sub for a service-oriented and platonic D/s dynamic
- a pet for a platonic D/s dynamic
You should be beyond the age of 27 and younger than 50, passionate about service submission or a pet lifestyle. In the case of service submission, I'd love for you to provide in-person services within Berlin or online services from anywhere else in the world.
The dynamic I'm looking for in this ad is explicitly non-sexual. Should we happen to have a great connection outside of the dynamic, it may be possible to also engage in a romantic or sexual relationship further down the road if both of us are interested in that. But again, in the context of the dynamic described in this ad, I'm not interested in having any sexual relationship with you.
The service submissive I'm looking for must be able and willing to provide at least one of the following service types:
Online services
- booking appointments via email or phone
- managing the dominant's calendar
- virtual morning alarm
- secretary service
- reading and citation of misc. literature (e.g. novels, poems)
- playing live music (e.g. piano, cello)
In-person only services
- food delivery
- food and drink preparation
- laundry service
- ironing service
- house cleaning
- wake-up service
- chauffeur- back, neck and shoulder massage
- gardening
Additional service types not listed here may be suggested by the submissive and will be considered for inclusion into the dynamic as well.
A proactive and anticipatory attitude is expected from the you, but clear tasks and assignments will be given in the beginning of the dynamic and whenever more clarity is needed later on. Previous experience with service-oriented submission is not a hard a requirement, but excellent communication skills, conscientiousness and empathy are a must. This also includes a good grasp on respecting your own and the other person's boundaries and being able to identify and communicate those.
Finally, the submissive must be able to actively identify and communicate blockers to their service and they must be capable of requesting appropriate support for fulfilling their tasks whenever needed.
Applications will be accepted immediately via chat and direct messages in either English, German or í•œêµì–´. Within your application, please include additional information about your age, previous experience with service-oriented submission or being a pet (if applicable), which services you would provide and a motivation letter describing what sparks your interest in this specific role. Please start your first message to me with a greeting that includes a shirt and tie emoji, so I know that you were able to read through my ad to the very end. Any messages that do not conform with this format will be deleted automatically.
I'm looking forward to hearing from you!
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