Obligatory boastful title, but hopefully it will serve to weed some respondents out.

About me *vanilla*: 21, blonde, college student. I'm extremely intellectually curious -- always reading a nonfiction book, engaged in my classes, as well as professionally ambitious (bonus points if we can coffee chat and discuss careers). Interests include history, college football, soccer, and reading books about parts of the world I've never been to.

About me *kink*: Submissive since before I knew what that word meant. Looking for a kind of sweet sadism -- condescension and pain, with a healthy dose of praise. I love to feel like the object of someone's desires and on show for them. I don't have tons of experience in a dynamic (tried certain physical aspects of BDSM with a few partners), but have lots of fantasies of what I want to do. I'm not looking for anything 24/7. I'm very assertive and headstrong in my regular life, and not looking to change that. Things I know I like: teasing, orgasm control and denial, pain (when I know it turns my partner on especially), spanking, cock worship, and I'm sure much more!

Who I'm looking for: As my title alludes to, I hold myself to a very high standard and extend that to my partners. I don't mean to come off as rude or snobby, but felt the need to include this to make it known what I am looking for. Long story short, I am attracted to ambitious, intellectual, and outgoing men. I need someone who takes physical care of themselves -- fit, well groomed. Wishes include height, a full head of hair, and ideally a large nose. Age-wise, looking for 21-35ish.

Hopefully this sounds like you and what you're looking for! Bonus points for a SFW photo to verify attraction (I'm willing to exchange photos early as well) Send me a message and a little about yourself if so. :)