My wife and I have been together for 3 years. We have a D/s relationship (she is the sub), mostly in the bedroom, but it does cross into our daily lives a fair amount as well.
She has always been bi, and she is finally comfortable enough to explore this part of herself. We have had a couple other female partners in the last year or so, took a break after our last one found a monogamous relationship, and now we are searching again.
She enjoys Star Wars, LotR, fantasy books, coloring, theater, painting. I enjoy cooking, grilling, cigars, whiskey, technology, futurology, philosophy. Together we both enjoy hiking, camping, traveling, time at the river, theater, fun stuff with the kids (slime, experiments, teaching, etc.)
Sexually our kinks are very much in line; she greatly enjoys the submission, light impact, verbal humiliation and degradation, objectification, throat fucking, anal, oral, forced orgasms, denial, free use, CNC, bondage. Our hard limits are probably pretty standard: scat, vomit, blood play, animals.
We are strong communicators, and we would need the same in return; open, honest, blunt language. All limits, kinks, wants are discussed beforehand, and agreed upon. After care is a must, as well as follow ups after time together.
We only bring in one additional woman at a time, and we are ideally looking for someone we can spend non-sexual time with as well. Someone who can vibe with us in general, and help her explore as she has only been with a few women at this point. We both welcome feedback so everyone has a good time.
This is just for a woman to join us, we have no desire to swap partners nor have a couple join us. Feel free to message me here if you feel this would work well for you.
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