Hey there! Thanks for popping in to read my message😊

I took a break from the lifestyle for quite awhile. For a long time in my personal life, I denied myself. I told myself that I needed to be more mature, sensible, and independent. So I got rid of the things I loved and tried to move on.

I tried to be capable and strong. Someone in control of my life and body, who made all the stereotypical "good" decisions, and who generally does all the things that society tells you that you should be doing. There's only one problem. I'm absolutely miserable.

So, I'm putting myself back out there in the hopes that I can find a Daddy Dom or a Soft Dom type. I'm on a journey to rediscover my cute, subby self, ideally with my forever partner. As such, I’m NOT looking for anything short term, poly, or strictly online.

I'd like to find someone that I can learn more from. An experienced individual that I can look up to and talk to. In some ways, I feel brand new all over again…so I’m definitely looking for someone who will take my hand (and little by little the control), and guide me through my uncertain steps because he knows just what to do and I don't. Someone who can pull me down into the rabbit hole and bring out my dirty side all over again.

About me: 28, I live in DC/MD/VA area. I have a career that I enjoy, I don't have any kids, never been married. I live alone, I pay bills, I take care of myself, etc. Basically you can rest assured I'm not a troll under the bridge lol. I enjoy video games, puzzles, animal documentaries, reading (specifically poetry, philosophy, and anything science related), trying and cooking new foods, traveling, shopping, yoga, anime (cultured girlie) and animation, and basically anything feminine and adorable. I love good conversation, so intelligent people with a lot to say always pique my interest.

I'm 5'2, slimmish, with big boobs (c-cups), with long hair and a cute smile. I'm POC: Jamaican and Puerto Rican specifically. But don't let the misconceptions fool you - unfortunately I'm not very curvaceous. That being said, I've been told I'm attractive, and will trade pictures to make sure the physical connection is there.

I wouldn't say I'm the biggest brat, but I do have my moments from time to time. I have a substantial praise kink. So headpats and "good girls" go a long way. My sexual interests include: tease and denial, panties, light humiliation, ddlg, petplay, collars, leashes, discipline, freeuse, breeding, and restraints. Once I’m comfortable I’m pretty hypersexual so I’m hoping to try more with the right partner!

Hard limits include: Raceplay, severe humiliation and degradation, needles, mutilation, anything including scat, urine, blood, or vomit.

About you: Male, within the ages of 27-40, within the US (bonus points for being on the east coast), experienced, financially stable, consistent, romantic,*** affectionate***, firm but gentle (maybe with the occasional cruel streak), you enjoy mental foreplay, and prefer that your control is felt both in, and out of the bedroom. If you're a DD then perhaps you enjoy making your partner feel littler? If you're a Gentle Dom then maybe you just enjoy corruption, and bringing out the ditzy and dirty side to your partner? Not looking for mean or sadistic doms, more affectionate control is what turns me on.

I look forward to hearing from you. Please reach out with your name, a very brief description, and one reason why you think we may be compatible or get along!