I'm a queer, agender trans guy (my pronouns are they/he). I'm looking for a sub for a relationship, initially chatting online but in person sooner than later. I live in North Derbyshire, near Manchester, so ideally someone who doesn't live too far away and can travel (I can host). Though I am planning to move to Stoke in August/September.

I am ideally looking for someone aged 25-45. My preference is for other trans guys first and foremost, but also fem or androgynous presenting women/enbies. Definitely have a thing for people smaller than me, and huge bonus if they're also alt/goth. Cis men, and anyone identifying as lesbian or gynosexual please do not interact.

I am polyamorous, with a wonderful anchor partner. I prefer a kitchen table style dynamic, but parallel/solo/RA is ok as well.

I am very much into kink. I'm a dom leaning switch, and tend to prefer to top, but am up for switching on occasion. I'm first and foremost a pleasure dom, but I do also have a strong sadistic streak. Into a wide variety of kinks. There's more about my kinky interests on my pinned.

I'm neurospicy (AuDHD). I'm a bit of a geek, with a love of most things fantasy (always up for a LotR marathon), an interest in science and art, and occasionally dabble in gaming. I collect fantasy toys of the silicone kind (like Bad Dragon but from indie shops). I have a horse, a dog and a snake. One of those weirdos who actually likes hiking, despite hypermobility related issues. I'm originally from Germany, and also lived in the States (MN) before moving to the UK when I was 18.

For those who care about this kind of stuff, I'm 5'10", grey eyes, mohawk, tattoed and pierced, alt/grunge/metalhead kind of style, dad bod but working on getting in shape. On T since 30/11/23, pre top surgery.

No tories, terfs, swerfs, cops, zionists