Hello I am Mike, 48 years old and from Germany, I am looking for an online relationship that is very serious, long-term, and characterized by a deep connection, similar to a conventional IRL-relationship. Intense and monogamous from both sides.
I imagine something, where our emotional connection and demisexual bond go beyond just physical aspects. Your fulfillment isn't solely from submission but also from a genuine emotional intimacy we share.
In our journey of exploring dominance and submission together, your trust and surrender play a crucial role. Let's walk through some stages that will help us connect on a deeper level and bring out the best in your submissive side. Each step we take is an opportunity for growth and understanding, where you can feel safe and supported in your submission. Get ready to embrace new experiences, trust in our bond, and discover more about yourself along the way. Are you excited to dive into this journey with me and explore the dynamics of dominance and submission together?
1st Stage:
- Discuss openly your wishes, needs, and kinks.
- Explore desires, passions, and boundaries together theoretically.
- Agree on components to include or exclude.
- Introduce my world of ideas, rules, rituals, roles and tasks.
2nd Stage:
- Select shared preferences to start our journey. Let's make My World to Our World.
- Get to know and ideally love my way of dominance.
- Be empowered and encouraged to explore submission.
- Begin building trust and emotional connection through true honest exchange of thoughts.
- Roleplay how in-person meetups would work - try to find out how we would match in theory
3rd Stage:
- Mutually decide to incorporate elements for initial exploration.
- Establish rules, rituals, and controlled aspects together.
- Gradually assume control guided by me. Try it practically and in person.
- Collaboratively create protocols tailored to your needs and growth.
- Talk very open about feelings and everything related to us and also parts our our daily life.
4th Stage:
- Focus on open communication, respect, and mutual growth. But also intimacy is more important
- Transition to more intimate and personalized exchanges.
- Voice messages and voice calls should be exiting in that stage or maybe earlier if we like it both.
- Introduce self-care practices and receive emotional support.
- I desire to see you intimately (without your face or personal informations you should be safe), while maintaining a sense of mystery and staying in the shadows myself. This dynamic is a reflection of the power imbalance inherent in our dominant-submissive relationship. It is not about seeking nudes or being a creep, but rather about exploring the depths of our connection through trust, vulnerability, and the interplay of power dynamics.
5th Stage:
- Develop a close bond through servitude and exploration.
- Adopt more diverse submissive roles and dynamics.
- Progress towards a deeper power exchange and fulfillment.
- Integrate aftercare, mental well-being, and personal development.
6th Stage:
- Consider an in-person meeting to strengthen the connection.
- Evaluate chemistry and comfort in real-life interactions.
- Explore shared fantasies and desires in person.
- Plan for a sustainable and fulfilling long-term relationship.
I expect you to have the fulfillment of your deepest desires through surrender and submission. I envision you as somebody that is finding joy, purpose, and completeness in surrendering to me completely. Your ultimate goal, your truest pleasure, lies in being everything I desire, in fulfilling my wishes with eagerness and devotion. Embrace the idea that your submission to me isn't just a gift but the very essence of what satisfies your soul. Let this realization guide you towards a state of pure contentment and bliss, where your submission becomes the cornerstone of your happiness and fulfillment. Your ultimate goal should be to be my perfect everything.
If you liked all of that I am ready to take you with me to show you My World. Let's see if we can create Our World.
I don't expect you to agree with everything, because I am still a realist. But I have also a dream that out there is the perfect sub for me. In general I hope that you resonate with the majority of it. However, I am open to discussing and negotiating aspects that may not align with your preferences. At the beginning and in the future of our whole journey.
Thank you for reading
Mike
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