Hi, im new to this lifestyle and inexperienced but looking to learn and explore. Im a plant based tree hugger and animal lover with a lighthearted and sarcastic attitude. Im open minded, caring, supportive, loving, mindful, quite shy, and compassionate. Physically, im 5’8, white, on the slender side, and have longer brown hair and blue eyes.

In my free time, I like to game (mostly singleplayer), watch youtube or shows, currently parks and rec and wwdits, hang out with friends, practice guitar, and do yoga, but in life i usually just go with the flow and let adventure find me. Environmentalism, human rights, feminism, and adjacent causes are important to me.

Im looking for a deep and meaningful long term relationship. To me, this means being each other’s best friend and confidant, sharing interests, values, and sexual desires. Quality time and communication are very important to me. I value all 5 standard love languages, from most to least: quality time, physical touch, acts of service, words of affirmation, gift giving. In general, I am looking for someone i am personally compatible with who shares my interests in a d/s dynamic, that dynamic being more than just sex, and in politics/causes, bonus if you’re plant based :). Together I hope to grow with and admire one another and take interest in each others hobbies.

I value respect for oneself, people, animals, nature, and each other. I also value honesty, openness, compassion, kindness, and supportiveness. Im looking for someone who is in the NJ/NY area, or possibly nearby states. Physically, they should be either a cis woman or NB who was assigned female at birth, white, hispanic, or mixed, and body size should be average, curvy, chubby, athletic, or muscular.

In terms of the dynamic, im open for mostly anything. Right now im looking to figure out what works for me while also making sure it would work for you too. Mommydom, role-reversal, and gentle femdom are my ideal dynamics. Im also open to switching but im mostly submissive.

In the day to day of the relationship, im hoping for a somewhat standard relationship, with the dynamic being more general outside the bedroom (like role-reversal). Id like to go on fun dates often and spend as much time together as possible while still giving eachother the space we need. In general, hopefully id be able to fulfill your wants and needs whatever they may be, while you do the same for me. In the bedroom, thats for the future to decide ;) but im sure the idea is there.

Thanks for reading!