Educated black woman with a busy lifestyle (still in school—education is very dear to my heart; it’s fried plantains, eggs, education, rainy days, polite and sweet educated men, carrot cake, tall windows—see how I ramble?) looking to pour attention and care onto a well-educated, hardworking man.

You must be between 25-35, taller than 5ft4, healthy, fit and single (no enm, no polyamory, no open relationships; single means no current sexual relationships; please no drama. I love gossip but not when it concerns me).

I want a heterosexual man, as straight as a ruler; responsible, disciplined and ready to settle down. I’m not a fan of tattoos (as long as it’s not obscene and your body doesn’t look like the bloody Sistine chapel’s ceilings, feel free to apply). No drug use, no 420 (it’s still considered drugs), no smoking, minimal alcohol consumption (I’m sober)

I can be blunt so if I ask to move onto snap or phone calls, don’t be scared. I just need to move the queue along and find out if I need to beg my family for an arranged marriage.

I love respectful and thoughtful men. Please start your message with salutations, followed by your age, height, weight, location in Chicago, education level, current profession, a brief description of your personality, hobbies, why you are interested in my post, and what our next steps should be. Thank you!

Me: 5’4”, 165 lbs (pandemic weight—can’t seem to shake it off), needs glasses to survive (you can be my eyes and describe how you see the world to me nightly), ambitious, introverted, a little mousy ( I flee for the hills at the sight of unrest - yes, what a damsel), a little mouthy (I can’t help it—I’m not a western sub), playful, and judgmental (I can’t help it - blame my ancestors).

I’m looking to relinquish some control, get spoiled, and be able to reduce the noise in my head (you can help me, right? Make everything calm so I can spoil you with attention). I’m into CNC, submission (it’s in me, but I’m yet to meet a man worthy of my submission), light spanking, light exhibitionism, and cuddling. I’m tired of living alone, so hurry! I need my Roman conqueror (actively swooning… no man to catch me… faints).

Hard limits: humiliation, scat, anal, blood, pee play, etc. Any fetish that involves playing tag with death is a no. Any fetish that can lead to marks or scars on my skin is a no. No collars, no abuse etc. I’m not a toy. Mental degradation and torture = NO