For those who are curious, I posted this in the bdsmpersonals reddit and figured since I live in the DFW area, I would post it here. Thank you in advance for taking the time to read.
I am looking for a person who is looking for a clean and respectful, kink-focused relationship. I would like to be trustworthy, discreet, and honest with someone about what desires we are looking to fulfill and find a way to satisfy our physical needs. This is supposed to be safe, fun, and pleasurable.
If you are curious about some of the dynamic roles that interests me. Mainly, I am a Dom, but other roles I enjoy fulfilling are: Sadist, Owner, and Degrader. I am not keen on age-play like DDlg.
In this dynamic, I am looking to engage mainly in the bedroom, however I am open and interested in actions outside of the bedroom. For in the bedroom: submissive/behavioral training, orgasm control, pain/pleasure, spanking, choking, cnc, toy training, rules/guidelines, sensory deprivation, and more. If outside the bedroom: emotional/mental domination, sadism, roleplay, teasing, commands, and etc.
Something that I want to be clear about is that for any partner, I go through a vetting process like I hope you would as well. I want to ensure safety and trust as a first, boundaries/expectations, experience, needs, and more. For both safety meeting first in a public space or using FaceTime is also needed before we go any further.
My Self
To describe myself, my personality would be considered chill, reserved, and blunt. I work in IT. In general, I am an active gym nerd who enjoys binging shows, relaxing at home, or working on my side projects. I am single.
Kinky
I found kink some time ago especially when I was younger though I didn't get to really explore it until college. Based on that I have learned a number of things and continue to learn more. I am not new to kink, but I also wouldn't say that I have reached expert status when comparing myself to true veterans. While not super important you be aware that I do have a decently high sex drive as well. I enjoy being a Sadistic Master the most though I have experience in other roles as well. I do have limits and boundaries and would like to discuss them when the chance arises. I am open to talking more and learning more about different people's kinks.
My Partner
For my partner while not an exact requirement. I would ideally prefer someone that I can connect with or who is open to connect with me to develop a level of trust and interest. I hope that similar to me you have your own interests and hobbies as I would like to learn some interesting things about you as well. Additionally, having an open-mind/curious mind. You take care of yourself whether that is your health, mental, or general state of being in life. If you enjoy nerdy things or enjoy being active like arades/physical training that is a bonus, but not required. I do require that you are above the age of 21 and that your location is relatively close to Denton County or willing to meet close to that area.
Kinky
As a kinky individual, you would be upfront and clear about what you want or looking for. While I am not opposed to assisting someone learn, I would advise for you as a person to have some knowledge and research yourself (I don't want you to take my words as law verify through your own understanding and research). In general, have a drive to learn and experience more things in the world of kink. If you have goals that I can help with don't be afraid to say or if you have interests that I can help you achieve. It is important to have your boundaries and limits or are open to discussing more about what they could be.
If you have made it this far. Thank you for reading. If you are interested then send a pm with information about your hobbies and kinks that you enjoy. I am in no kind of rush, but I am intentional and not looking solely for a chat buddy. Thank you again and good luck.
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