I am 35 single, no kids never married. I live by myself in Marlboro NJ. About 40 minute drive from NYC. I am looking to meet a dominant woman for a serious relationship. (Monogamous) I would like our play to be private and for us to date and have a real relationship outside of the bedroom as well. I would like a real girlfriend/boyfriend dynamic with kink in the bedroom or whenever we both feel like it. I am just not into public humiliation. Safe words must ALWAYS be respected.
There is much more to a dom sub relationship than just whips and chains. I think before engaging in play a dom/sub couple should have mutual respect and trust, and only when the dynamic in a relationship is good outside the bedroom, will playing in the bedroom be most pleasurable. Our relationship should be based on mutual trust and respect. Good communication is key in my opinion.
Most importantly I want to make my partner feel like a real woman, she should feel adored and cherished.
In terms of my kinks I like:
Corporal (bare hand OTK is my favorite but I like toys as well), obidience training, body worship, collar/leash, facesitting, slapping, hairpulling, cuddling, aftercare, giving massages.
Hard limits for me are: Cuckolding, non-monogamy, blood, sounding.
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