Just a devoted, sassy, submissive cuddleslut hoping to find my kinky best friend to do life with. I am looking for a genuine connection complimented by kinky chemistry. (Vanilla Sprinkles, if you will.) Holding out for a Dominant partner that wants to share my life, and is ready to include me in theirs. I’m past the casual sex stage (flirting with Demisexuality nowadays), so please do not inquire if you are just looking for a play partner, or anything else outside of a monogamous relationship leading to a life partner/marriage.

You (I’m looking for):

• 25-40yo cis Male

• Dominant/Dom-leaning & kinky

• Single (over your ex, legally, etc)

• Childfree (I don’t have or want kiddos)

• Monogamous

• Gainfully employed

• Located within 1-2 hrs of me?  (I could do long distance for the right person if you’re willing to consider moving in the future.)

• Vices: All things in moderation. It is important to me that my partner is not *dependent* on these. Drinking is totally fine, I’d love it if you were also a beer snob. Non-cigarette smoker preferred, vaping is fine but hopefully not constant. I’m down with 4/20 friendly, as long as it’s not your baseline/norm. Psychadelics can be fun (and therapeutic) but must be respected.

Me (What I’m bringing to the table):

• 30yo cis Female

• Submissive & kinky (do enjoy switching when the mood is right)

• Single, never married

• Childfree (by choice, LOVE my fur baby)

• Monogamous (Poly/ENM are awesome for those who enjoy it, just not for me.)

• 7 yrs into a career that I LOVE (Healthcare, so I value discretion regarding my lifestyle)

• Homeowner (Columbia, TN… not looking to relocate in this market my family is here.

• Vices: Beer lover. Drink 1-2x/week, I do not consume alcohol in excess or to achieve intoxication bc my mental and physical health are important to me. Non-cigarette smoker. Strictly no 4/20 due to work, do enjoy fungi rarely. Cigars are definitely a guilty pleasure of mine. (Maybe once/week.)

Vanilla

I’m a 5’7 plus-size brunette (curvy/athletic) who loves to laugh and have fun. I’m a passionate person with a lot of love to give, who just wants the same in return. I have always identified as a tomboy and am pretty low maintenance (outside of my bratty demands for love and affection). Having a strong Dominant partner really allows me to yield control and lean into the vulnerable/sensitive side of myself that I don’t share outside of my inner circle. I’m pretty direct and outspoken, definitely an extrovert who loves my social time with friends/family and at work. (First responder here. Inappropriate sense of humor alert) I would love to become a part of your social circles, but I also enjoy alone time with my partner to recharge and connect one on one. ESTJ-A, Enneagram 8 if it matters to you. (Pretty accurate)

My various interests include reading, houseplants, cooking, travel, beer/cigar snobbery, spoiling my dachshund, riding dirt bikes, shooting handguns, binging anime, OLY lifting & more.

Sprinkles

BDSM is an important part of an intimate relationship for me. I’m submissive. Ideally seeking DDLG, not a deal breaker though. I do enjoy some bratty fun, but I also tend to melt when I feel loved and cared for. (Those feelings also keep me consistently high libido. When I’m happy, I want lots of intimacy.) I really appreciate the communication, vulnerability, and trust that healthy kink-based relationships demand. I would love to explore TPE and a 24/7 dynamic if it’s something you’re interested in.

My kinks include: ALL types of physical affection, praise kink alert(!), bondage (rope bunny here), impact (spanking), biting/marking, oral, anal play, light degradation/humiliation, and more.

My hard limits/non-interests include: pet play, age play, ABDL, blood/scat/watersports, knife/needle play, fisting, pegging/sounding, etc.

Happy to discuss more once we actually get to know each other. (I’m pretty open minded, so just ask if it’s important or a dealbreaker for you.)

My ideal partner is:

A lover of physical touch & acts of service. Great sense of humor, not afraid to laugh at himself, and a good communicator. Emotional intelligence and work ethic are sexy. A gentleman. Overlapping interests are great, but we don’t need to be the same person. I find that I fall in well with military folks, but I think that’s really a mindset thing and applies to how you view the world after those sort of experiences.

Physically, I am a sucker for a good smile, kind eyes, and a great laugh. Bonus if you’re close to my height/taller. I don’t think I really have a type, though I do appreciate an average build some muscle.

You will make my day if:

You DM with your name, ASL, and fav ice cream flavor, so that I know you read all of this. If you want to share a SFW photo of yourself, I will reply with one of myself so we can decide if there is mutual attraction.

Hope to hear from you,
- Amory