Who I am: 32, happy go lucky type. 6 feet tall, black hair, and bear. like body. Language brings out the best and the dirtiest out of me. I go to the gym, run for my health. I read a couple books every month.

What I am looking for: Not really looking for you to do my adulting for me. (Even though that would be such a relief lol) But I have a lot of goals that I want to work to work towards: Personal, professional and more. And at times I push myself too hard and sometimes not enough. I am looking for someone that I can look to as my beacon. Someone to help me build systems to accomplish these things and hold up a mirror to me and help me be accountable. I want to build a hopefully deep connection with someone that can hold conversations, is mature, kind, patient and empathetic. Someone that has seen the world and is perhaps open to take me under their wing and bestow some of their life experience and wisdom on me.

My kinky side: I am a big believer in the mental aspect of kink. Late night conversations organically evolving into deep moans is how i like my intimacy. I have come to believe that the words we use in the community like "dom, "sub, "switch" don't really tell us who we really are. But I do understand their utility as a good starting point. What I am looking for is femdom. And a gentle kind of domination. The kind where you make me want to please you and follow you with your kind and encouraging words. I am not into humiliation and degradation and the likes. I want to feel desired and wanted and made to want to please you.

What I offer: A learner, and an eager and pleasing one at that. Someone that will always communicate with you and hold you in high regard, and in time, come to adore you. I bring conversations that can range on every topic under the sky. Someone to have silly times with and watch netflix together. Read a book togeter and share funny links. I also offer a raging sex drive. I offer to let you have the satisfaction that comes with seeing your influence on someone and see someone change because of it. Someone that will make you feel desired and wanted and needed. Someone that will want you. For your attention, you will get a fun partner to explore and enjoy the finer and kinky things in life. A companion who you can share things with.

If any of this affected you in any way, please do let me know by sending me that orange envelope. Even if you want to say just hi. Or just to strike up a conversation. If there is a spark, who knows what might happen.