Hey all, thanks for clicking on this post, I'll try and be as brief as I can for you, whilst giving an oversight of me and what I am looking for.

As the title says, I'm a 23 yo Male from the UK. I'm aware this is on the younger side but have delt with a lot, and am sure I can deal with whatever is thrown at me on here, by anyone.

I would classify myself as a switch, but definitely more on the Dom side. I have been in the BDSM sphere for 5 years, in that time having 4 online and 2 in person subs total. I will typically commit all of my time to one sub, but the d/s dynamics will last different lengths, as with any relationship.

My main kinks are orgasm control, exhibitionism and voyerism, bondage, and timing control (like giving tasks to be completed by specific times or times to complete them in). I'm also interested in working more with anal play and CNC, as I do have a dark side, but it also would depend on you/the sub and whether that interested them also.

I have also dabbled in being a submissive, I have been properly owned twice. I know some people will say you can't dabble in kink, but I think the opposite, kink should be fun and for it to be fun you're allowed to try things and decide as you go what you like and dislike. My kinks are very similar in bondage, voyerism, exhibition and orgasm control. My main limits are showing my face and currently anal play.

Outside of kink I'm a PhD student but have a part time job also. I play rugby at a very high level, so keep myself very active, and would hope you would do the same. I also ski, mountaineer, mountain and road bike, kayak, sail and Windsurf. If there's an outdoor activity available, I will be trying it.

One of my goals is to complete an iron man within the next year, this has been extended due to knee injuries. Another one would be completing the 3 peaks challenge, and summiting all Scottish Munro's.

I'm looking for someone, either online or in person, to eventually enter into a d/s relationship with. However, I'm also interested in just chatting to random people and getting to know other people in the BDSM sphere.

If you want to message and chat please feel free, but answer this question. When talking to a guy, are you someone who likes to be persued or do you want someone to be upfront about what they are looking for? I find it differs between people and the differences follow a trend.