I'm a 37f, but look and act about 26. Im 5'3, have curly brown/sometimes black hair, big brown eyes and a smile that will melt your heart. I am an absolute cutie, if I say so myself. And I hold health & fitness in my life at the highest importance. I also love being held accountable for completing my workouts (among other tasks), as praise/reward drive me to be the bestest for you. I'm a princess at heart and wont settle for less but I have a perfect mix of sub personalities, to keep you happy, to serve you well and perhaps on your toes.

I am looking for a Daddy, Stern Gentleman Dom, with maybe a bit of a Sadist/Primal side, who values some traditional values. We all have wonderful mixes of what makes us unique and someone who understands themselves enough to know what they want, who they are and what they can give is of the utmost importance. You are respectful, experienced (doesnt necessarily have to be older, but has to be mature), intellectual, funny, open to learning, having fun and understand fully what it takes and the responsibilities you hold to be a good Dom and are proud of it.

I also am looking for someone that holds importance to their health, physically and mentally. We are all humans and have downfalls from time to time, but there is a difference in supporting each other and shouldering it all.

A nice dynamic would be great, with us getting to know one another, inside and out, in everything mind, body and play wise - but saying that be prepared to take it slow, having a physical, sexual, mental connection is of utmost importance to me. This is starting online but moving to IRL is a must (I am willing to relocate), so if you are looking for online only please look elsewhere. I also expect the effort and time of a mix of texts, phone calls (very important to me) and creative date nights (I have a great imagination so I can give ideas), until we meet - saying that please know, I'll put in as much effort as you do. But of course I understand life does sometimes get in the way. Let's be real we can make this a fun adventure along the way and of course having a sense of humor is a must.

This is a process to get to know one another but it's not a job interview, if there's no flow in conversation, it probably won't work out.

Humilators and extreme degraders, married, or poly, please don't reply, nothing wrong with what you like but my heart can't take it and I am looking to be a cherished primary.

And know just because I am a nice, doesn't mean I don't take notice to the little things, actions speak louder than words, and so do your intentions. I may be sweet but not naive.

I do dislike to sound superficial, but amongst needing a mental connection, I need to be physically attracted to you, we are all beautiful and handsome in our own way, but we may not be fit for one another. SFW pictures with the first message, get top priority.

I am in North America ( canadian west coast ish), and just for time differences and IRL factors, I would prefer that you are too or a similar time zone (but as an audiophile, if you have an accent bonus points). I have an array of interests, that are in the creative, nerdy side, to the fitness, fashion side but am interested in alot of things, so I'd love to learn your hobbies/interests too.

If you made it this far, clearly you are intrigued, feel free to message me with something other then "hey" and what you enjoyed most about this post, just so i know you read it. If I missed something feel free to ask..and we can discuss most other kinks and limits with each other to see if we are compatible.

Enjoy and thanks for reading!

P.s It may take me sometime to answer back due to the amount of overwhelming responses I receive and work. It literally may take me a couple days to get back to you, forgive me in advance, and if this post is still up I'm still looking. Preferences go to 30 .