Good morning all! I always debate what to put first here because i know that is what most people read. My goal is to find a partner and a domme (I know, good luck on Reddit - but that’s not going to stop me from trying!) so let me lead with the sfw side. I work in finance doing back office work, and I really enjoy my job! It is demanding of me and that is part of the enjoyment for me, having the challenge. In my free time I enjoy hiking and spending time with my dog, we are very active (otherwise he’d tear the house apart 😅). I enjoy what I do in my free time but I am also looking for a new hobby to get into, so taking suggestions!

Enough about the sfw side of me. I would consider myself to be a service sub. I have spent a long time getting to that realization but I found I truly enjoy when someone close to me is happy. Making you laugh, smile, confident, all gives me a sense of peace and comfort. Tbh this probably is the same for friendships, it doesn’t have to be sexual in nature. Given my job difficulty as I stated earlier I find that this is a really healthy balance for me to relax when i need to! As far as what I’m into, I’m learning and the list will continue to change. I am very much into joi/ruined orgasms, degradation/humiliation and I’ve been exploring things like chastity, clamps, cock rings, etc. As far as limits, hard no would be anything permanent or public and sissification.

I save some of this for the end because I want to be flexible and make it work if someone is truly interested in what I’ve written. That being said I would really be looking for someone between 21 and 45 and in the US. Not a hard limit but that’s just what would be most compatible with my schedule at the moment. I am very much interested in something in person but am more than happy to start online and see where things go, we are all busy people. I would strongly prefer someone monogamous. I am not into sharing or being cucked, so I’d prefer one-on-one.

If you message me please include your favorite fruit to kick off the conversation and I will be happy to share pictures once we connect!