2nd Attempt: let's try again.

I'd like to have BFE (boyfriend experience) play and the online sexual aspect will occur only after we've gotten to know each other and both feel comfortable. BFE "represents a package of attributes, emotional investments, and time commitments that mimic those found in typical romantic relationships. But it's not always tied to romantic involvement. It could be a friendship with an extra layer of emotional depth, or it could be a full-blown romantic and sexual relationship without the label. It's about connection, intimacy, and an emotional bond that transcends typical casual relationships...emotional intimacy takes the center stage. The boyfriend experience goes beyond superficial connections and dalliances to create a deeper emotional bond." Long definition, but hopefully that clears up ensuing questions.

I'm looking for genuine, kind, patient men between the ages of 30-42. If you are attached in any way, do not contact me.

I am a single Black woman with a curvy build, a switch with preference for sub, & I do have to warn that I'm a spicy sub. The submission has to be earned & I will push back often. If you're a Dom who can't handle such a dynamic, please don't reply.

I look forward to providing you with companionship and showering you with affection. I'm not expecting a one-way street type of deal. I will always reciprocate the time & effort you put in and I will prioritize you. Let's create a safe space for vulnerability, thoughtful conversations, & an understanding that sexually charged chats are secondary to a genuine connection (that said, top kinks are CNC & Daddy/daughter incest play). I'm not looking to turn our online connection into an irl relationship, but I also won't discourage such a trajectory, should it naturally and mutually occur.

Updates: *Please reside within the USA - if we wish to pursue an irl partnership, then your location matters *I will always speak out against racism & sexism - if that offends you, Fuck Off *If you can't share a real picture of yourself, please don't reply - catfish assholes, keep swimming *Please have the ability to carry a conversation - I understand shyness & I'll be patient, but know that it's exhausting having to single-handedly keep the conversation moving by myself, every time

If you're interested, let me provide a GFE for you too 💋!