Hi,

I believe its gonna be almost an year since I have realised that I have realised my likeness for BDSM and my attraction towards being a submissive. I have had a few of this dynamics in the past, short termed but I think I have learned my fair share of things and I’m always willing to learn. As far as my experience have told me I identify as a submissive and a brat and I think the ratio of it would be 50:50 and recently I have discovered that I’m also a masochist.

What I expect from you as my dom:

1. For me BDSM is also about power exchange, as much as I love orgasm control, denial, punishments, nipple play etc I absolutely love the Power exchange dynamics. I think I would say that is my top kink. It can vary from to whom I talk with to what I wear when you I go out (of course you can get more creative with this) But, at the same time I understand this takes time so I would like to develop this gradually and not directly jump into it with rules and stuff as it can get overwhelming.
2. I respect both sexual and non sexual aspects of a BDSM relationship. So, I would expect my Dom to train me in both aspects. For example, I like orgasm control/denial, teasing, bondage(haven’t tried much of it), teasing, nipple play, Humiliation and Degradation(haven’t tried much of it), impact play, pun/funishments (as I’m a brat sometimes hehe). At the same time I like the non sexual aspects like, wardrobe control, behaviour control, eating habits, staying health, praise. I’m open to more as I move forward in the dynamics.
3. I believe communication is very important for me and when I say communicate everything, I Mean EVERYTHING. As it is an online dynamics, communication is the ONLY way to know what we are going through and what can make the dynamics better.
4. I require attention, now by this I don’t mean that I’m crazy and I require your constant attention. I would like to be with someone who can check up on me, contributes something to my life and is not only horny. Just talking to me, calling me randomly just to check up on me etc. Just small gestures goes a long way.
5. I like to experiment more and more. Now, I understand online dynamics have its restrictions but you can get creative with it only if you try to keep things spicy in one way or other. That, I believe comes from trying new things. This can include anything be it sexual or non- sexual.
6. As mentioned before I can get a little bratty from time to time (It can be often, I love being bratty) I want someone who has the patience for it and I would so LOVE to have consequences for my actions. (If you know what I mean ;))
7. I require love and affection from my Dom, I don’t want someone who wants to just jerk off. As much as I love degrading names, I also love affectionate names (I hope this made sense lol, I can explain more if it did not:))

Somethings that can be a dealbreaker for you:

1. If you’re way too busy with your work/college etc. I understand you have a life out of the dynamics but I would like to be with someone who has a work-life balance.
2. I won’t jump directly into a dynamics, I would like to know and understand you first and will expect vise versa. If you’re looking for just play time. I’m not the one for you.
3. The age I’m looking for in partner (give or take a couple of years if my post really spoke to you) is- 23-33.
4. I want a Dom who is experienced and knows what he is doing as I believe I would be better suited with a partner who I can trust and guide me through this.
5. I’m not looking for someone who has is more than 2 hours ahead of IST.

My kinks: TPE, Bondage, edging, orgasm control/denial, pun/funishments, impact play, nipple play, teasing, Humiliation and Degradation, pet play( not too much of it just touching the basics), CNC, Misogyny, possessiveness, praise and open to more.

Hard Limits: Nothing illegal, blood, scat, piss play( there can be more) No body shamming while humiliating or degradation Soft limits Sharing nudes (can share after getting to know each other a bit) Sharing pictures of my face.

If found my post interested, drop me your location, age and a brief about yourself.

Looking forward to hear from you:)