Hi, I’m fairly new to D/S relationships but I do have some experience over the last few months and have been interested for years. I am looking for someone who is willing to be patient but firm with me. I would like long distance/online only but that doesn’t mean there may not be the potential to meet further down the road. I’ve always had to be extremely independent and I’m looking to give up some of that control. I am naturally a leader which reflects in my professional life but I want to give that up outside of work. When outside of work, I’m a fairly shy and quiet person until you get to know me.

I would like someone who I can have a good base with outside of playing. I love listening and talking and learning about people in an intimate environment so I’d really like to have a strong friendship. I’m the type who sends little updates throughout the day, but I’m not expecting you to drop everything and answer. I just like talking and sharing if something makes me think of you. If you are the type who wants me to check in or does the same, great! I love reassurance and for me, the easiest way is to just take an interest in me.

About me-I am 5’4 and curvy/chunky. I am working on that as I’d like to be a little smaller. I have long red hair, green eyes, and wear glasses. I love hiking and exploring new places and reading. I like watching movies but I’m guaranteed to fall asleep halfway through. I am willing to try a lot of new things and even old things I didn’t like but may have tried with the wrong people.

Limits-bodily fluids, age play, permanent damage, videos

Soft limits-degradation(just about my body), pics(some I’m more willing to share than others but this is the one thing I want to have a little more control of. If you ask for a real time picture, I will do my best but it may take me some time to work up to showing you certain things until I’m comfortable with you. No faces.)

If any of that interests you, dm me with a little bit about yourself and I’d love to see where things go :)