Hi there - First and foremost - thank you for clicking on my post!

TL;DR: To save you some time, I am always open to & searching for an irl partner to build a relationship with.Ideally, you're smart and ambitious, open to dating, passionate about something (literally anything), and have a decent sense of self.

However, I am also realistic about the odds of this coming through reddit, so I am also open to a more friends with BDSM benefits type situation. Regardless - I believe the fundamentals need to be strong for either of these dynamics. You'll find I'm eager to learn about you, support you, and be your friend. In exchange, I hope to receive the same from you.

My non-kinky Basics:

• I’m 24M, fair/light-skinned on the East Coast
• ~5’6" and am generally fairly skinny with slight muscle definition. I am getting back into the gym a few days a week and happy to share photos & verify in private
• I have my own space and love the comfort privacy that comes with it.
• Outside of work, you'll find me reading about the latest tech, collecting records, or listening to some Flume Orr Beach House (What song do you have on repeat lately?)

My kinky Basics:

• Though my profile would not prove it, I can easily switch - and am great at it. I believe my submissive tendencies allow me to understand subspace even better as a Dom.
• I tend to be a logical person. Kink seems to be the place I find myself most willing to let go, submit, and trust another human to teach, nurture, train, and use me. Psychologically, with the right person, I feel most safe in this space.
• A few specific kinks I’m sure I’d like are: Chastity, light CBT, CEI, light humiliation, Orgasm control/denial/ruins, edging, light SPH. I love making you feel good, especially at the expense of my pleasure.
• I’m also looking to further explore: Anal/Pegging/prostate play, censors, and maybe even cucking (or roleplaying it). If there is something specific you're into that I haven't listed here, chances are I really want to learn more about it!
• My limits: Scat, permanent, illegal, extreme pain/public, blood, needles, IRL Forced Bi - let’s just use common sense :)
• I have plenty of toys and am open to getting more!

About you:

• A female in your 20s
• Located within a few hours of my timezone
• HWP
• Willing to verify share photos/videos
• Capable of holding conversation and reciprocating energy
• Passionate about something (I literally don't care what it is, just please have something you enjoy talking about!)

I thrive with a person who is soft but strict, kind but devious, reassuring but taunting - the more creative the better. Being used, encouraged, and ever so slightly taunted through it all is my largest kink. A gentle (but sadistic leaning) femdom with a hint of mommy eager to train and nurture me through it all is really what I’m after.

If you’ve given me this much of your attention and made it this far, thank you again! If you're intrigued but on the edge for whatever reason - please still reach out! You really never know and I'm not super strict on my requirements...

I will be asking for verification (eventually) so please be willing to do so. I’m usually a fairly quick responder unless I’m asleep so, unless this pops off lol, you should hear back from me within a few hours max :)