About me

I’m a 30 year old Australian attorney who has just moved to the US after what feels like forever working my ass off to get here. Things are finally coming together - I have the job I love in what I’m told is the greatest city on Earth, I’m settling in and meeting people, and have all that energy you feel at the start of a new chapter in life.

I figure, why not try strike while the iron is hot and fulfil another dream and fantasy while things are going my way. I have always had a thing for Asian ladies (sorry, but not really sorry) and have been a dom ever since I was old enough to have a serious relationship. Having my very own gorgeous freeuse girl to play with and enjoy each other’s company? Yes please!

I rent a place alone in Midtown East, and in it is a spare bedroom that I hope might be where you stay… but I’m getting ahead of myself.

My work takes up a lot of my time and is also a major interest of mine, and that does come at the expense of other things. Even so, outside work, I enjoy reading, time outdoors, climbing, hitting the gym, gaming, and being a really obvious tourist.

I’m 6’2, in pretty good shape, and have been told I’m not too hard on the eyes both by my mum and by reliable third parties. But in the end I leave that to your judgement!

Kinky things

Here comes the spicy part. I’m a dom and a sadist. I’m looking for a 24/7 TPE dynamic that ultimately moves to being live-in with free use. Ideally you’d move in not right away, but also not too far in the distant future either!

That’s where that spare bedroom I mentioned comes in. I’m very open to a relationship that develops into a romantic connection, in which case who needs multiple bedrooms. But I’m also open to other kinds of dynamics if that isn’t for you or if you just prefer to have your own space at first. I want to make clear I am looking for a sub, not a roommate or a maid. I don’t want you to cover any rent or to dump all my chores on you. I want to do much more interesting things to you. What are those things? I’m glad you asked!

I enjoy mixing warmth and sadism. I might call you a princess before I grab a handful of your hair. Kiss you before I slap you. You get the point. I like cnc, free use, generally roughness, anal, hair pulling, slapping, choking, and degradation/humiliation. We can talk about the elephant in the room when we chat.

I believe in risk aware consensual kink and will always respect your boundaries and limits absolutely.

About you

I have a preference for thin/in shape body types, and for intelligent humans with their own deep passions and interests. Between all the kink sexy things, it’s very important to me that we enjoy each other’s company - so I’d love it if you were someone who enjoyed intelligent conversation, or exploring places together, or had great taste in movies or shows you’d like us to binge together! I guess what I’m saying is, it’s important you be a complete person and not just a sexy toy for me.

I have in mind this arrangement starting off online for a few weeks, and progressing to us dating (if you’re in NYC) or figuring out what our plan is to switch to meeting in person if you’re further away. I’m going to be unfair and insist on a certain level of privacy for me at first because of my career, without affording you the same luxury. It is not the last thing that will be unfair in our relationship, all things considered. I hope you understand!

If this sounds like something you might be interested in, please send me a chat request and introduce yourself! Tell me about what caught your attention and one place you recommend I check out if you’re a New Yorker!