I’m looking for a woman is both Christian and slave.  As to the specifics of your faith, that’s not my business. That’s between you and God.  But a woman of faith AND kink is who I seek. 

I want a woman who thoroughly embraces the Master/slave dynamic and considers her role the primary focus of her dreams and desires.  I would like for my slave to crave staying home and being completely taken care of, to be able to cast off ambition and worries and simply lean fully into our dynamic.  I am looking for a woman who thrives with ritual and protocols, enjoys being inspected and commanded.  I want a woman who leans into her femininity.  One who embraces traditional gender roles and non-toxic misogyny.  (Might as well ask for everything I want.)

Age is not important to me.  Any woman 18 who dreams of being property to a responsible, older man who can take care of her fully, provide a nice life and use her daily for her skills and services is welcome to contact me.

I’ll tell more about myself and my style of domination.
I’m 56 but often get told I look in my 40’s.  I’m open to share photos, video-chat, anything required to prove my sincerity and “realness”.  I have decades of experience in power-exchange relationships.  I’ve lived the 1950’s HOH, DD, DDlg, D/s and M/s lifestyles at different times, and all were satisfying.  But there’s something about Master/slave relationships that is simply… MORE.  The intensity of this dynamic pushes emotion and dedication back and forth so strongly, I’ve never had a slave who didn’t succeed in making me love her fiercely.  I don’t want a cum-dump or a maid.  I want a partner, one where our roles are clearly defined, and we each take it seriously.  To build something amazing and worthwhile.
As a Master, I’m very patient.  I’m calm.  I NEVER yell, scream, throw things, slam doors, beat my girl for honest mistakes… I’m just not like that.  If my slave needs correction, I’m not the least bit hesitant to provide that.  But I never make stuff up to have an excuse to discipline my slave.  If I want to beat your ass, I’ll just do it.  I don’t need to manipulate you into thinking you did something “wrong” to have an excuse to hurt you.  I simply will exercise my right to use you for my own satisfaction.   If you read “sadist” into my last remark, you’re correct.  Any woman I consider MUST have some degree of masochism in her outlook and desires.  If this made you excited, let me lay out my own approach to S&M.  I have MANY kinks and interests, including pain play.  But I limit my own experiences, tailoring them to the girl I’m with.  I can get off by spanking you to tears, or I can take you as deep and extreme as you wish.  My slave’s interests, tolerances and limits are CRITICAL to me.  Let’s be real… we will discuss deeply the things we need.  If we can’t agree on this topic, then we know we aren’t right for each other.  No tragedy.  It’s good we discovered it before it was too late.  But S&M IS a part of the dynamic I seek.

The situation I’m looking for might could be called “Marital Slavery.”  Lol!  I know, that term probably isn’t unique.  But I want commitment.  Someone to share my full life with.  To best provide for your needs, marriage makes sense on several levels.  I have superior benefits for myself and my spouse.  If you got sick or something, I could handle those expenses if you were on my insurance.  There’s also benefits available to my widow if I died early.  So, a live-in slave isn’t what I’m looking for.  I want a woman who wants to go all-in.  And I want to own you to the bottom molecule of your existence.

Random Information -

I don’t care where you’re from.  I won’t automatically disqualify a person based on their location, but the realities of immigration laws can’t be ignored.

If you have one or two children, that is also something that can be discussed.  Not an automatic deal-breaker.  I have 4 adult daughters, and I enjoyed fatherhood.

If you have a Ddlg kink, that’s ALSO something that has appeal to me and I can nourish that longing in its proper time and place.  I’m not interested in being a caregiver to a woman who can’t operate in reality, but I succumb easily to a woman who timidly approaches and says “Daddy?  Will you play with me?”  It touches my instinct to protect, guide and “father” a vulnerable child.  Plus, it stirs the old-man pervert in me and opens the door for fun “molesting” you!

Kinks –

I can’t repeat this enough… I have MANY kinks and interests, but don’t have to have everything I would like to do.  I do have a list of must-haves.  Everything else is negotiable or open to modification.  So, I’ll start there.
MUST HAVES -
TPE.  This is not a game to me, nor is it to the woman who joins me on this adventure.  It’s a lifestyle choice.  It NEVER turns off.  We live in the real world and there ARE circumstances that require adjusting to, but the dynamic remains in place.  If you have a family emergency and need to rush to be by your sisters’ side, I respect that deeply.  But in line with our dynamic, you would not be allowed to TELL me you are going to your sisters’.  You would ASK me to help you go be with her.  It then becomes up to me to not be a piece of shit and refuse you to allow you to go.  And I’m NOT a piece of shit.  The moment you informed me of the emergency I would already be thinking of the logistics of arranging your visit.

I’m patient and calm.  Although I am a sadist, I don’t think I’m textbook because I have strong empathy for everyone.  Much more so it will be toward my beloved slave.  I’m very slow to anger and if pushed too far, I will provide an “attitude adjustment” before you ever get close to actually making me want to get angry.

I have a heavy appreciation for aftercare.  I take care of what’s mine, even if I’ve just used you hard and reduced you to a quivering puddle of slave-goo.  Especially then!

Although the dynamic is locked in place, the desire for easy, comfortable discussion and conversation doesn’t change.  We will spend time together snuggling, going out to run errands, going for ice cream and to nice restaurants.  The dynamic is there and it’s permanent and protected, but ordinary life happens all around us and we will participate it in as a couple.  I don’t believe in shoving my lifestyle choices (or my faith) in anyone’s face.  So, in public no one can tell that at home, you have your “place”, and you stay there.

Master and slave, friends and lovers, husband, and wife.  All-in.  That’s what I seek.  If you desire this, too, or something very close to this, message back and let’s start getting to know each other.

JD