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Please, PLEASE write some sort of meaningful introduction. I’m not going to respond to single sentence messages or partial nudes. Cheers.

I know that all of these posts are utterly exhausting at the best of times and so many are littered with pet names and honoriffics outside of the realms of a dynamic so let’s just do away with that straight away.

I’m a 32 year old middle (little space age 5-12) but predominantly identify as a service submissive. If you wear a suit and leather shoes, let me press creases into your trousers and shine those shoes for you each night. I adore domestic servitude and find it romantically and sexually fulfilling.

Here’s a few things about who I am: - A Sydneysider who unfortunately lives in Melbourne - 5’8”, chubby, G cup - 32, millennial without a mortgage - Classical musician and former opera singer now training in music education. - Politically left and reading mostly kropotkin

What I love to do: - Sing, both for leisure at home with my guitar and in small opera companies around the city. - Be absolutely crushed to pieces between the barrier at a gig and 4000 people while I look wistfully at Josh Homme for the 15th time that tour - Queens of the Stone Age in general, sludge metal, doom but also Nick Drake, Rush and David Bowie. - Cooking and enjoying dining, I especially love to cook for other people. - The ocean, I absolutely worship the ocean.

Here is what I’m looking for: - A caregiver type personality who is kind, empathetic and adoring. - Someone who can be open about their own boundaries and respect mine - Someone who finds conversations about consent to be sexy and not just the bare goddamn minimum. - For music to be the cornerstone of your being. - Someone fun, jocular but also knows how to read the room and can be serious when appropriate. - Someone who is not judgemental of mental health conditions and neurodiversity.

What I’m not looking for in a person: - Immediate horny conversation - SWERFS, TERFS, cop sympathisers, cops, transit officers, transphobes and genocide apologists. - Working overtime to maintain a conversation; please put some effort in. - Someone looking for a plaything or a ONS.

I’m not sure whether I should write my kinks here because I think it just invites the wrong kind of attention and I’d rather have an intelligent conversation with someone who has thoughtfully engaged with this post before I start to share that kind of thing. I think discussing kinks comes after discussing consent and it should evolve from conversation rather than just be some big list piled at the top of a chat or in this space here.

Why you might like to message me: - You resonate with the things I enjoy or what I’m looking for - You think you can deliver on something meaningful and long term - You are emotionally intelligent and kind - You found this at all interesting!

Feel free to send me a message and we can share SFW (please only send safe for work) photos after you’ve told me a little about yourself and why we might be a good fit.