Hello! To start this off I want to list exactly what I am looking for and deal breakers in excruciating detail. That way you won't waste your time reading this whole thing or messaging me only to find out we don't match up. So here is what I require in a relationship.

1.While this will start online please be ready and willing to move to IRL when the times comes. I have no problem relocating or helping you relocate should we get that far.

2.I'm looking for a Little and Submissive but also a partner I can fall in love with. A partner I can spend every spare moment with. Even if that means just being in the same room. A partner I can work with to build a life together. If you, for whatever reason, are not ready to fall in love and be loved please do not message me.

3.I suffer from ADD, Depression and Anxiety. So if you lack the patience or ability to be understanding move along. Should you suffer from any mental or physical ailments that does not make you less deserving of love. So don't hesitate to message me should you read on and find me interesting.

4.My Caregiver aspect is 100% non-sexual. Therefore I do not participate in age-play. My Dominant aspect is that of a soft/pleasure Dominant. If you want someone to degrade you and treat you like punching bag then I'm not for you. I want nothing more than to please, praise and guide my Submissive into the person they want to be, their best self. For you masochists' I have no issue inflicting pain but I will not leave scars or place you in situations that are unnecessarily unsafe (Knife play, blood play etc.)

5.I am not very political really nor religious. However I believe as long as you're not hurting anyone you should be free to be who you are. So gay and trans rights are human rights. This country has institutions built on racism, sexism and homophobia and reforms are needed to fix these issues. Basically if you are a right wing person pass on me please.

"With the first link, the chain is forged. The first speech censured, the first thought forbidden, the first freedom denied, chains us all irrevocably." - Judge Aaron Satie

1. I do not want children. There are too many of our species as is. Further breeding causes more problems that is solves at this point. I would be willing to adopt a child in need of a home and loving family but if you require genetic offspring of your own then I am not for you.

2. I believe religion is between the person and whatever/whoever they serve. I myself do not discuss my faith unless asked. I am what many would consider Pagan however. So if you can not respect my faith as I can yours then I am not for you.

Well if you read all that and are still interested please keep reading. I would apologize for the length but consider this your first test. If you can read through all this then you can survive me rambling on like I tend to do. lol

I'll start this off with my "SFW" aspects. I'm basically a big nerd. I was a DM for 10 years, I've played video games since I was 5. I've always had an interest in science and the way things work. I love nature as well but I am much more at home inside but I'm not opposed to a hike into the mountains now and then to see how everything shines. I also build Gunpla and want to expand into other models. I enjoy anime and music and art. My tastes in everything from food to music are very eclectic to say the least. Speaking of food, I LOVE to cook! I'm always trying or slapping together new recipes. I'm also a decent poet and philosopher. So deep conversations late into the night and random poems left for you would not be uncommon.

If you're the sporty type I'm afraid you won't have much in common with me. Only sports I follow is college football and only when Alabama is playing (ROLL TIDE) and even then I listen on the radio. Gives me old timey vibes doing it that way. I also get bored sitting on the couch watching the modern replacement for gladiatorial games but we all have our likes and dislikes. Well it seems I rambled a bit there but I'm sure you get the point. I'm a nerdy guy who keeps to himself mostly but wouldn't be against following you into the big wide world. In fact I would prefer you not going alone. You may just get lost if you forget to keep your feet.

I'm more than willing to exchange photos as long as it is mutual but physically I am 6' 0", blues eyes and very pale skin with a dark red beard which is non-negotiable. I weigh around 195-200lbs and definitely have a "dad bod". My hair line started receding when I turned 30 so now I shave my head. I've been asked about pills or other stuff to restore my hair and I'm just fine being bald. I'm not a vain man. So if me being bald is a deal breaker there's your warning. lol

As far as your appearance well I don't really have a type. Though I am 100% an ass/leg man. So there's a silver bullet in your belt. lol

Well now on to my "NSFW" sides. I've covered this a bit in the prologue to this novella of a post but I need to go into a bit more detail so you have the complete picture. I'll do my best to ramble a bit less here but no promises.

My Dominant side and Caregiver side bleed into one another. Over the years it has become a fine mix of the two. I can cook for you, dry your tears, protect you from monsters then become the monster you crave being ravished by. My pleasure comes from yours. Every moans and scream ring out for me like church bells do to the faithful. I am protective and territorial but these are different from being controlling. I would not threaten your autonomy as a human being. You may go where you like, be friends with who you like and do what you like. However I do reserve the right to protect what is mine. Should certain places, people or activities prove harmful to you I will remove them. I never fail to communicate before I act however. What I see as a danger could very well be me misunderstanding. Communication is very important in every dynamic but much more so when there is an exchange of power whether that exchange be partial or total. Well I got a bit rambled there but I'm sure you understood.

I want to close this out with a message to my future partner because I know you are out there. I am not here to waste time, mine or yours. Time is not something we can earn or make more of. When time is spent or wasted it will never return. So if you are like me and you're tired of wasting time on half-assed relationships and "love" that shatters at the slightest hit from life then I hope to bring you something different. Something better. Something real. I hope to be your last love. I don't know how much time I have left but I am ready to spend it all with you and not waste a moment of it.

Well I feel I've put too much in this post already or maybe not enough. I really can't be sure. Either way though I am going to wrap it up here. If you read all this way and I piqued your interest then please feel free to message me here. If not then I wish you all the best!

-Outis