Let’s face it. If you’re browsing this subreddit, you’re interested in what this subreddit has to offer. Stop endlessly browsing and start sending some messages.

I’m a Soft Dom in Florida, looking for a submissive woman who wants some structure in her life. I’m not looking to be a brat tamer or to be constantly doling out punishments. I would much rather reward you for being a good girl than punish you for being bad. If you have a praise kink, I’m your guy. I tend toward the caregiver role, but I am not into age regression.

About Me: I’m 39 year old Soft Dom with some experience in that type of dynamic. I enjoy taking on a caretaker role, but age regression is not my thing. I live in the Florida Panhandle but travel frequently to Georgia. I’m left-leaning, pro-choice, pro-LGBTQ , pro-BLM and an atheist. Conservatives, zealots and bigots steer clear please. I do not have children and have no interest in having any at this time. Dogs are better than cats (fight me). I’m 6’ tall and have a dad-bod, but have recently returned to the gym to rectify that. I have a good job that I don’t love, but it affords me the ability to do the things I want to do. I drink socially but I do not smoke or do drugs. I am stable from a financial and mental health standpoint.

About You: You’re looking for the stability and comfort that a D/s dynamic can bring. You’re looking for a patient, caring and supportive Dom who will seek to help you grow as a person in addition to as a sub. Preferably you are in your thirties, but I could go a little younger so long as Tik-Tok is not your entire personality (you know who you are). My ideal match would share my political and moral values. Don’t plan to bring me to Jesus or whatever. I tend to prefer girls who are smaller than me. I like quirky or nerdy girls. Being a gamer is a plus, but not necessary. Have your own goals and dreams. Ideally, we could use this dynamic to help both of us grow and achieve those dreams.

My Vanilla Stuff: I have a dog (pics of yours gets you pics of mine). I’m a gamer. Right now, I only game on PC. I haven’t owned a console in years. I am a true crime junkie. I will almost always have YouTube playing in the background, usually some true crime video. I enjoy tabletop games as well. I’m originally from Georgia and I go back there once a month or so to see family. I am a cinephile and enjoy rock music and concerts.

The Dynamic: Right now, I’m looking to get to know someone online. If you’re local, that’s a plus. But LDR is fine also, as long as there is the intention to meet at some point if we hit it off. I am open to try to keep the D/s dynamic in the bedroom, but I tend to be pretty dominant in general and it bleeds out into everyday life a bit. My vanilla relationships have tended to veer that way. I am open to 24/7 and TPE but not with just anyone. It would have to be someone I have a good connection with and I wouldn’t rush into it.

Kinks: I am open to a lot of different kinks. This is not a comprehensive list and you need not like everything on this list: praise (giving), impact play, anal, 24/7, roleplay, cuddling, aftercare, light degradation, light bondage. Honestly, I’m down for most things as long as it doesn’t involve scat, blood, permanent marks or anything illegal. If you don’t like something on this list, no big deal. And if you like something not on this list, odds are decent I’d be down for it.

If any of this sounds remotely interesting to you, stop lurking and send a message already.