Feminism to me is women being free to do whatever makes them feel empowered, even if that means choosing to be a slave.

~Neurospicy, ADHD style.~

Non-sex adverse asexual (sex isnt super important to me, it is an act performed usually for my partner)

A little bit about myself

In my day to day life, I'm just a shy, meek panromantic trans-woman who prefers snuggles and movies to loud parties and the like. I love to explore most things, and I work in IT. I'm usually pretty shy, and due to this I can come across as awkward.

My hobby is being a nerd, if its a nerdy activity, Im probably 100% gung ho about it, or want to experience it on some level. (except for Star Wars -blech) Let's go Larping/ to a Renfaire!

Outside of kink, I love to explore and go places without having an ultimate goal. Lets go somewhere and do a thing! I'll happily tag along . I'm geeky and nerdy and love all things game / tabletop related, and if you are too, then we'll get along great!

I have recently learned about M/s /High Protocol within the past year or so and even started learning about Gorean Style relationships and it has sparked a fire in me that I've not it's not had in a while. Unfortunately it's not something I've been able to experience first hand, but I adore new experiences and learning.

Being little/abdl is how I was introduced to BDSM, to the point where i was in a 10 year relationship with a Daddy Dom, and we remain close friends to this day, and it will forever hold a spot in my heart, though recently it has taken a back seat as i figure out other facets of who i am and what dynamics I prefer, though i do have some characteristics that linger around it, such as cuddling stuffies and enjoying cartoons.

I'm overtly friendly and a big ol crybaby when it comes to sad movies, and im slowly opening myself up to various horror movies. Ya girl is not a fan of jump scares, but the rest of it is generally cool.

Power Exchange for me is not inherently sexual. While it can become that way, during scenes and the like, the aspects of Power Exchange (both Total and not) and how that can affect a relationship is what inspires me to be the best person I can be, while I understand that not everyone does look for that sort of relationship, and many can find it stifling, I feel I tend to thrive better inside these types of relationships than outside of them.

I am a fan of The Old Guard and earning my place, please push me and allow me to earn my place at your side!

I have experience with polyamory in the past, and Im not adverse to it in my life, though right now I have no partner due to working on myself and figuring out who I am and what I need out of life and relationships in general.

Ultimately I think I would love to be owned and in a 24/7 TPE relationship with a Master/Mistress, but thats not something that can be happen overnight. It's going to take a ton of work on both of our parts for something like that. I'm still excited to try.

I know this is long and rambly, and if you've stuck with it this long please shoot me a message! I am 100% an open book and willing to discuss anything you'd like! I know there's not a lot in here to help you gauge if we'd be compatible kink wise, and that's because I want to have at least a single conversation between us that isn't focused on the sexy side of these types of relationships.

I am also perfectly happy to provide references!