"It's hard for an educated woman to turn her head off. That's part of the joy of being a submissive. None of the decisions are yours. When you can't refuse anything and can't even move, those voices in your head go silent. All you can do, and all you are permitted to do, is feel." -Cherise Sinclair

I'm looking for an online (with some regular IRL meet-ups) dynamic with a Sub that I can be friends with first. Someone who is educated and well-read. Intelligent, witty, and a bit of a nerd. Loves long conversations where we talk about what we're reading, work, life, dreams, goals, articles we've come across, and have ridiculous, hilarious banter in between. Please don’t have me carry the entire conversation.

She trusts me unequivocally, and submits to me wholly. Nothing brings her more peace and security than knowing she is owned.

My sub thrives in the structure I provide for her. She lives for my praise, her mind craves my domination of her soul. Maybe she needs a gentle reminder everyday to eat her meals, drink her water, take her vitamins, or exercise? Maybe she just needs someone to focus on, and that quiets the chaos in her head. Allowing her to carry that focus over onto the task at hand. Her body responds to me in ways that are specific to me…and me alone. Nobody else has quite managed that which makes me a bit addictive?

You are ENM/Solo-Poly/Poly/ whatever it is you are but our D/s dynamic is…Exclusive to each other.I prefer to be the center of your world (within reason maybe?)

I don't exert my control over you at all times. At least not in obvious ways. I actually love that you are your own person - but the dynamic is always in play, and knowing that I could require a task or invoke a rule any time I want is exhilarating for you.

We both have lives outside our dynamic, and we're intentional about communication and attention we give to one another. When life disrupts our routine (as it will), we communicate and hold space and give time to the other as needed.

If this sounds like you and a dynamic you want, please send me a message or a chat. I'd love to meet you.

Kinks include - M/S, Orgasm Control and Denial, CNC, some form of TPE, Spankings, body writing, Grooming control