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Hello all who read this, I hope you are doing okay! This post may be really long, I apologise for that, but hopefully that means those who read are truly interested:)
What I'm looking for
I'm really hoping to find a kind and gentle but also fun and enthusiastic Switch to explore and experience with. I have always been the dominant one and while I haven’t had a real chance to discover my submissive side, I am looking to become a switch with someone I really vibe with, I will go into the dom and sub side of me further down of course, but I am dom leaning but would love to express my submissive side. For this to work for me it is important I find someone with which I can create a real connection that has trust, spending time getting to know each other, sharing interests, making each other laugh and flirting hard to make a kinky bt more importantly genuine friendship with crazy amounts of attraction.
A bit about me
I am a 25 year old guy from the UK. I have loads of different hobbies and interests which you will learn as we get to know each other but to name a few... I love travelling, exploring different places and the gym and weightlifting is a big thing for me too. I also love playing games on my PC, watching movies and binging shows, music will always hold a special place in my heart. Physically I am 6'4" in height, I have blonde hair a few tattoos with plans to get more for sure, I have quite a bulky muscular build, large chest, broad shoulders and big arms.
The submissive side
So I have two main ideas of what I think I'd be into. The first of which being along the lines of worship. I've always loved seeing my partner in pleasure and being the cause of that pleasure. Loving and worshipping their body to their heart's content, using my fingers, mouth, toys and my body to bring them all the pleasure they could possibly want, like a strong warrior fucktoy worshipping his queen.
- Body, breast, ass and pussy worship
- Service top to a power bottom
- facesitting
- using toys on you
- eating ass
- freeuse
- light degredation and name calling
The other idea goes along the lines of the gentle, kind side of femdom, along the lines of mommydom I think. I think in my life I have really lacked being praised and looked after, especially in sex, for these reasons I'm looking to be encoruaged and praised in a female led way, giving up the control to be looked after sexually by my partner
- Praise and encouragement
- leash and collar play maybe?
- orgasm control
- breast sucking
- freeuse for breeding maybe?
- Giving up control/ Female led
- being looked after sexually
So there may be lots more I'd be interested in that I don't know about but I do know what I really am NOT interested in. I am not interested in feminisation, sissification or humilation, I am a masculine guy and want to remain that way. I am also not interested in being pegged, sorry I know this is a big one for a lot of you.
My dominant side
I am dom on the softer side but with a firm hand. Sex to me is a celebration, it’s fun, passionate, I love it when I feel like I really want my sub and she really wants me too. For this reason I’m not really into cnc, I prefer a mutual level of obsession and possession (in a healthy way of course), where all we crave is bringing pleasure to each other constantly. Speaking of pleasure, I am very much a pleasure dom, my number one turn on is seeing the woman I’m with in pleasure and knowing that I am the reason she feels so good. Another big thing for me is wanting my sub to have a bit of an oral fixation, loving to worship me and my cock, I can explain all of these more but I will wait for the conversation since it makes for such a fun one!:) but for know here are a few kinks:
- Passionate and messy sex
- Some primal play
- Sloppy oral and mouth fucking
- Praise
- Light degradation
- Toy play
- Cum play
- Body worship both giving and receiving
- Sneaky and Risky sex
- Lots more and open to most.
Thankyou for reading!
Well to those, if any, of you made it to the end of this post, I hope you enjoyed and are interested. If you are interested please send me a message, I much prefer the chat. I don't mind where you are from, open to anyone 21 years old or older, the older the better really. have a good day :)
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