Hey, thanks for checking me out, this is going to be a bit of a long post so let's get into it:

About Me:

I'm a 26 year old Heteroflexible* (I'll add a bit of detail about this at the bottom) Caucasian Male, 5'10, chubby but working on losing weight and making progress. I have a Dadbod but I'm not obese. I'm hoping to get down to 200ish lbs as a final goal. Personality wise I don't want to come off as being grandiose about myself so I'll just say I'm generally fairly laid back and lean more to the calm side of things, with a bit of a cheeky and sardonic side(s). Although I will say I'm a lot more relaxed in person than I seem in my ad, I sound like I'm applying for a job lmao.

My interests are definitely on the nerdy side, I love learning about and working with animals (as well as other Biology subcategories as well) I spend a fair amount of my free time reading and playing video games, although I'm excited to start getting into Tabletops. I also watch a bit of anime and enjoy most media that has anything to do with history and mythology. One of my biggest passions however is cooking, I love finding new recipes to try from around the world.

What I'm Looking For:

I'm looking for a romantic relationship primarily, not friends with benefits or a platonic friendship explicitly, but I'm not opposed to it either, I just ask you make that crystal clear from the very start. I'm looking for someone within 5-6 years of myself, 20-32 years old but I'm flexible within a few years if we have a ton of chemistry. For a partner I'm looking for a generally optimistic or happy personality, as well as people who lean into nerdier hobbies like myself. Other positive traits I look for are intelligence, confidence and kindness. I don't particularly care what you look like, personality is a lot more important but I will say that I'm a sucker for long hair. I should make very clear that I'm not looking to jump into sex right away, I want to get to know you as a person first, having that connection is very important to me.

I'm not a super judgey person but I do have a handful of dealbreakers:

• Smoker/Drug User
• Dislikes Pets/Animals
• Self-Destructive (As in, doing things that destroy your body like neglecting prescription medication)
• Polyamory (I don't dislike the idea of playing with others as a rare event, but I would prefer to be monogamous and committed to each other 99% of the time)
• Highly Religious (If you feel the need to drag me to church, we're not compatible)

Kink:

I'm a switch, but recently been exploring and enjoying my dominant side a lot more. I admittedly have not ever had a chance to try most of my kinks in real life. Much of what I know is from reading stories on Reddit, Fetlife and Loverslab (told you I was nerdy). I think I have a fairly strong grasp of etiquette and consent on paper, but lack the real life experience to confirm that.

Because Limits tend to be Dealbreakers for some people I'll list them first:

• Ageplay (specifically regressing)
• Raceplay
• Scat (Urine and Blood are soft limits)
• Extreme Masochism/Sadism (Lighter stuff is fine though)
• Permanent/Long Lasting Markings
• Anything that could involve non-consenting strangers (Public Play, Exhibitionism etc. They're fine amongst consenting people however)
• Bratting, however I would be open to changing my mind about it. I just don't see it at my present moment as something I could enjoy.

My kinks have changed a lot lately as I'm exploring my dominant side, however I'm open-minded and willing to try most things at least once. My kinks:

• Orgasm Control/Denial/Edging
• Chastity Cages and Belts
• Costumes/BDSM Gear/Outfits
• Bondage, specifically with restraints like cuffs, armbinders and blindfolds (Rope and other bondage is great too though!)
• Free Use
• I also have a Worship kink which is hard to make clear in a way that fits on a single dot on a kink list. I'd be happy to elaborate more in private, but essentially it's a form of Deification.
• Service Submission, a specific kind that ties into the above dot
• TPE

Regarding my Sexuality:

I'm beginning to question my sexuality. I'm 100% certain I like cis and trans women and would be open to experimenting (albeit going very slowly) with effeminate men or femboys. However I do want to make it very clear that I'm questioning, the last thing I'd want is to hurt someone's feelings if it turns out that I am straight after all. I'm putting this as a disclaimer not to discourage anyone from reaching out but more to say to temper your expectations from me if you do decide to reach out.

Conclusion:

If we hit it off I'd be happy to share a picture of myself as well as contact information, but I hope you understand if I don't share it on a forum in which just anyone can access right off the bat. Also as an interrupt so I know you read to the end, please include your name, your quest and the average air velocity of a fully laden swallow. I listed online as a potential, however I do wish to meet up at some point as I find long distance and/or just text to be unfulfilling. Thanks for reading to the end, I know it was a lot but I didn't want to leave anything important out so here's a pun:

Why are vampires so happy?

They know how to B Positive