Good afternoon!

This may get a little long, but please read until the end if you can, hopefully it'll be worth the read!

You have probably seen me post here before, and having still had no luck, my search continues... I am looking for a needle in a haystack I am sure...

Please be aware that I am NOT looking for any of the following: An online dynamic, A DD/lg dynamic, a 'Daddy', younger men, married men, to switch, to join a couple, swap nudes or engage in age play. It has got to the point now where I shall simply just block and ignore messages from those seeking the above - please respect the fact I have zero interest in any of the things I have mentioned.

SFW me:

I have just turned 26, I live alone in a very quiet sleepy little village in Oxfordshire, I work part time, love to socialise with my friends, and spend time with family. I enjoy cooking, baking, long walks through the woods or on the sea front, meals and drinks out, music and travelling.

I am white, 5'3, curvy. have long auburn hair, hazel eyes and wear glasses. I am very much a plain Jane... don't cover myself in make-up or wear tight overly revealing clothing.

Possible dealbreaker...?:

I am autistic. This does NOT hold me back in life. I work, live alone, drive and lead a pretty "normal" life. However, I can and do get very anxious when speaking with new people, and even more so when I meet them. It takes me a long time to build trust and warm to people, so although I only want real life/in person connections meets will not be instant. Due to my autism I am not comfortable hosting at my house. Please take a look at my pinned posts on my profile to find out more. Please note - With all the respect in the world, I will not be prepared to enter a dynamic with someone who is also autistic - many reasons why, but it's just something I am not willing to do :)

NSFW/kink me:

Well I hope you're still here and the above hasn't put you off!

So, I am new to the world of kink... I had some very light kinky...ish experiences with an older guy I was seeing a couple of years ago, he wasn't a Dom, but he did give me a small taster of BDSM, and since then all I've wanted is to explore my submissive side! I crave to be owned!

I am looking to build towards a long term IRL dynamic with an experienced Dom who can train me along the way. A dynamic with rules, structure, punishments, protocol and lots of rough sex! A dynamic where the Dom has full control (would consider TPE eventually), and a dynamic that is present outside of the bedroom.

My kinks are varied but they include: impact play, restraints, gags, blindfolds, breath play, humiliation, nipple torture, rough sex, anal (currently an anal virgin), CNC, abduction play, hair pulling, and much more!

You:

I am looking for a Dom who will be able to take his time to train and guide me, it'll be a slow process, so please have patience. I am looking for a Dom who is older than me but not ancient (55 is an absolute limit), a Dom who is kind, caring, stable and respectful, but not afraid to take control. A Dom who looks after himself (personal hygiene is a must), is strong both physically and mentally and ideally is willing and able to host.

I have pinned two posts to my profile that I'd urge you to read (if I do interest you) before messaging me. Please do not send dick pics - instant block. I will not be sharing face pictures until I feel comfortable, please respect this.

Please include 'cheese' somewhere in your message to show me that you've actually read to the end... :D

I hope to hear from you... M x