I'd like to have BFE (boyfriend experience) play and the online sexual aspect will occur only after we've gotten to know each other and both feel comfortable. BFE "represents a package of attributes, emotional investments, and time commitments that mimic those found in typical romantic relationships. But it's not always tied to romantic involvement. It could be a friendship with an extra layer of emotional depth, or it could be a full-blown romantic and sexual relationship without the label. It's about connection, intimacy, and an emotional bond that transcends typical casual relationships...emotional intimacy takes the center stage. The boyfriend experience goes beyond superficial connections and dalliances to create a deeper emotional bond." Long definition, but hopefully that clears up ensuing questions.

I'm looking for genuine, kind, patient men between the ages of 30-42. If you are attached in any way, do not contact me.

I am a single Black woman in her 30s, a switch with preference for sub, & I do have to warn that I'm a spicy sub. The submission has to be earned & I will push back occasionally. If you're a Dom who can't handle such a dynamic, please don't reply.

I look forward to providing you with companionship and showering you with affection. I'm not expecting a one-way street type of deal. I will always reciprocate the time & effort you put in and I will prioritize you. Let's create a safe space for vulnerability, thoughtful conversations, & an understanding that sexually charged chats are secondary to a genuine connection (that said, top kinks are CNC & Daddy/daughter incest play). I'm not looking to turn our online connection into an irl relationship, but I also won't discourage such a trajectory, should it naturally and mutually occur.

If you're interested, let me provide a GFE for you too!